...I can't change what the Bible says about homosexuality but I can tell you this, it isn't mentioned in the New Testament hardly at all as compared to many other human failings.
I'll try to love everyone and let God sort it all out.
I got interested enough to go do a little research
New Testament references I could find (multiple accounts of the same prohibition/ situation excluded - eg Mathew, Mark, Luke and John all quoting Christ's Sermon on the mount)
Adultery and fornication forbidden or referred to as wrong (excluding multiple accounts of the same story)
1. Mathew 14: John castigated Herod's wife
2. John 4: The Samaritan woman
3. John 8: The woman brought to the temple to Jesus
4. 1 Corinthians 5: Adultery and Fornication ('you're even worse than the gentiles')
5. Mathew 5: Christ's prohibition
6. Hebrews 13: 'whoremongers and adulterers God will Judge'
7. Mark 10; Christ's prohibition
8. Acts 15: 'abstain from'
9. Romans 1: Describing wicked people
10. 1 Corinthians 6: 'body not for fornication'
11. 1 Cor. 6: "flee fornication"
12. 1 Cor. 7: "avoid fornication"
13. 1 Cor. 10: 'Neither let us commit fornication"
14. 2 Cor. 12: "..bewail fornication"
15. Galatians 5; " works of the flesh are manifest, which are these; Adultery, fornication...
16. Ephesians 5: "But fornication, and all uncleanness, or covetousness, let it not be once named among you.."
17. Colossians 3: "Mortify therefore your members which are upon the earth; fornication.."
18. 1 Timothy 1: "Whoremongers"
19. 1 Thessalonians 4: "abstain from fornication"
20. Jude 1: Sins of Sodom and Gomorrah - fornication
21. Romans 13: Repetition of Levitical commandment against adultery
22. James 2: Quotation of commandment
23. 2 Peter 2: shall receive the reward of unrighteousness... Having eyes full of adultery.. cannot cease from sin;
Plus six references in Revelation that I haven't researched the context enough to say.
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Homosexual activity (including vague and debatable references)
1. Jude 1: referenced Sodom and Gomorrah, mentioned in same context as fornication (#20 above)
2. 1 Corinthians 6: With number 11 above
3. Romans 1: 'Natural use..against nature'
4. 1 Timothy 1: mentioned with fornicators, reference 18 above 'them that defile themselves with mankind'
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The application for me, from the Christian perspective can be encapsulated in this passage.
1 Cor 6:9 Know ye not that the unrighteous shall not inherit the kingdom of God? Be not deceived: neither
fornicators, nor idolaters, nor adulterers, nor effeminate, nor abusers of themselves with mankind, Nor thieves, nor covetous, nor drunkards, nor revilers, nor extortioners, shall inherit the kingdom of God.
Everybody I sit in the pews with on Sunday sometimes meets one or another of those definitions. The following verse is the essence of Christianity as I see it.
1 Cor 6:10...And such were some of you: but
ye are washed, but ye are sanctified, but ye are justified in the name of the Lord Jesus, and by the Spirit of our God.