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« on: March 24, 2006, 07:19:06 AM »
It sparks a memory in me when I took my ~3 yo into the pizza parlor to pick up the pizza and forgot he was with me, got in the car and ALMOST drove away. He was hysterical. I felt like the biggest POS that ever lived. It's 20 yrs later and I STILL feel like a bit of a POS over it.  

But it DOES happen:

Updated: 11:56 a.m. ET March 24, 2006
WASHINGTON - Commuters racing to catch the train typically forget things in the car  keys, wallets, briefcases. But a baby daughter?

Thats what happened Thursday just north of Washington, police say.

Dad forgot baby was in the car, parked the car, got on the Metro, said Lucille Baur, a spokeswoman for the Montgomery County, Md., Police Department.

I dont know exactly when he got the memory flash, but he was in D.C. when it was the horrible defining moment, Oh, my goodness, I think Ive left my child back in my car, Baur said.

At that point, she said, Jonathan Sander got off the southbound train and onto a northbound one, returning to the Shady Grove Metrorail station about 12 miles north of Washington.

By that time, other commuters had noticed the 7 1/2-month-old girl in the back seat of the car, firefighters had opened the locked door and the child had been taken to a hospital as a precaution.

She was reunited there with her mother.

Child Protective Services was comfortable with releasing the child back to the mom, said Baur. We all believe that the child was not intentionally left in the car.

Sander, described as terrified, embarrassed, was charged with leaving a child under 8 unattended in a car or building. He could face a fine of up to $500 and 30 days in jail.
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« Reply #1 on: March 24, 2006, 09:11:01 AM »
Nope.  The worst thing I've ever done was forget to buckle my child's carseat...and I realized it before I got out of the grocery store parking lot.
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« Reply #2 on: March 24, 2006, 09:21:52 AM »
It happened where I work.  A guy was supposed to drop the baby off at the day care.  Usually the wife took care of that task, and he forgot about it all day since he wasn't part of his routine.  At the end of the day he rushed the baby to the clinic, but it was too late.  I really can't imagine the mental anguish that would cause.
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« Reply #3 on: March 24, 2006, 09:29:24 AM »
Ok, this is something I've always thought about but never thought to say: You guys all know what a papoose is, right?  At what point and for what reason did we do away with those?  Any of you ever walk around with an empty holster having forgotten to pick up your gun?  No?  I wonder why not...  How about a kid holster that makes it real obvious when you're not carrying the baby.

280, I think that's a brain-stem reaction from any decent parent.  The absolute worst thing you could ever do is endanger your child.  I'm attaching no value judgement to what you did, but I know I would feel the exact same way in that situation, and I would be glad I felt that way.

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« Reply #4 on: March 24, 2006, 09:47:47 AM »
I think more like a proximity alarm. If you go more than 25 ft away from the kid, an alrm on your wrist or neck goes off. As crazy as it sounds, people forget they have their kids with them. And the word "terrified" describes very well how you feel when you do.
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« Reply #5 on: March 24, 2006, 10:21:35 AM »
280,

They actually have proximity alarms that you can stick on expensive-but-small gadgets, like camcorders.  It'd be pretty simply to re-task one.

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« Reply #6 on: March 24, 2006, 10:27:24 AM »
Hmmm, a catchy name and we might be on to something...

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« Reply #7 on: March 24, 2006, 10:42:46 AM »
Crap.  It's already been done.

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« Reply #8 on: March 24, 2006, 10:50:23 AM »
Crap, another get rich quick scheme down the tubes...

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« Reply #9 on: March 24, 2006, 05:32:11 PM »
Seems to happen in Dallas but only during the summer with the windows rolled up in the car.

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