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Post by: Spec ops Grunt on April 25, 2006, 01:35:35 PM
http://www.gamespot.com/news/6148293.html

As an almost 15 year old kid, I love having my constitutional rights taken away from me.  Right to vote, gone.  Freedom of speech, gone.  Right to keep and bear arms, gone.  I'll agree that some people my age are not responsible enough to have these rights, as well as some adults.  But those adults still have those rights.

Pfft, land of the free.  Sad
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Post by: zahc on April 25, 2006, 01:43:40 PM
I'm starting to get really pissed off at the US lately.
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Post by: cosine on April 25, 2006, 01:49:35 PM
Hey, you think it's bad at age 15, well, legally I'm an adult (18) but guess what? I can't drink, buy a handgun, etc. That's probably my biggest pet peeve. If you're going to define someone legally as an adult, give them all the rights and privileges of an adult. rolleyes
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Post by: Spec ops Grunt on April 25, 2006, 01:51:17 PM
I can't do that or the aforementioned stuff.  I want my own damn country.

Is there a certain age where adults immediatly think someone younger then them is automaticly and invalid?
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Post by: zahc on April 25, 2006, 01:56:24 PM
I was watching an anime show the other day, which was set in Japan, and I saw a cigarrete vending machine. I was like wait....we don't have those in the US anymore. I remember those days, but thank G** we have now been saved from ourselves, and such society-ruining manifestations of freedom are no longer around.
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Post by: Perd Hapley on April 25, 2006, 02:19:26 PM
OK, at what age do you want the full rights of an adult?
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Post by: cosine on April 25, 2006, 02:33:11 PM
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OK, at what age do you want the full rights of an adult?
I didn't mind waiting until I was 18 for the rights of an adult, (I might get some flames for saying this but here goes: When I was 15 I wanted the full rights of an adult, but now looking back to three years ago I can see now that I definitely wasn't mature enough for everything that I wanted.), but now I find it really annoying that "Yes, you're an adult, but only partly." Hmm.
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Post by: Art Eatman on April 25, 2006, 02:38:53 PM
Age-limit stuff is based on "generally" and "most people".

For instance, would you really believe somebody under 35 is really qualified to serve as President?

Sure, I know people 35 years old who couldn't pour pee out of a boot with a hole in the toe and directions on the heel.  But that's not "generally" or "most people".

Unfortunately, "most people" of less than eighteen years aren't responsible enough to be allowed to exercise the rights of an adult.  Those who can suffer for that restriction.

But it's a good lesson:  The world, or life itsownself, isn't fair.  It never has been.  It never will be.  Never forget that.  When things do go well, be thankful.

Art
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Post by: Guest on April 25, 2006, 02:45:01 PM
It's not just kids having their civil rights "screwed":

http://www.independentmail.com/and/home/article/0,1886,AND_8195_4641568,00.html
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Post by: Spec ops Grunt on April 25, 2006, 03:01:47 PM
I'm thinking long arms at parents discretion, handguns at 15,voting and alcohol at 18.
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Post by: Guest on April 25, 2006, 03:54:57 PM
As one fairly recently out of highschool,  I sympathize with the 18 unclesamwillgivemethekeystoatankbutnoboozedamnit guys, but this particular generation is brain dead, the thought that 18 year olds i went to school with have ANY say in our goverment sends chills down my spine.
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Post by: hoppinglark on April 25, 2006, 06:09:18 PM
I think at 18 you should be an adult.
Tobacco
Firearms-all kinds
Alcohol
Automobiles
Voting
Enlisting in Armed Services

Prior to that?
15
age to consent
drive a moped/scooter (50cc or less)

just my 2 cents.
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Post by: K Frame on April 25, 2006, 06:30:42 PM
Given what I'm seeing from some of the younger renters in my community, and their young 20something friends, I don't think they're responsible enough to have the rights and priveledges of an adult.


Oh, and just to revisit a common refrain that I've brought up before, even the founding fathers didn't consider all rights to be absolute. The age of majority in colonial times was, in most states, 21. Voting "rights" were highly curtailed. And let's not even talk about women or blacks or indians.
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Post by: brimic on April 25, 2006, 07:01:37 PM
Minors don'thave the full rights of an adult, but they do have many protections not given to adults- both for reasons of lack of worldly experience.
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Post by: Perd Hapley on April 25, 2006, 07:23:31 PM
This is nonsense.  I say full human rights begin at conception.  When I finish law school, I will represent infants who are being held against their will and denied binky.  And when that fetus kicks, that means he wants out - and you'd better let him or else.
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Post by: Parker Dean on April 25, 2006, 07:51:13 PM
IMO, the reason that minors are not allowed these things is not that we like the idea, it's just that hard experience has taught us that they cannot handle the responsibilities.

At any given time a late teen may exhibit remarkable self control and forethought. Put that same teen in a group of their friends and that maturity tends to fly out the window with a sonic boom. Not every teen of course, but enough that the trend is obvious. Add guns and alcohol and the recipe for a tragedy is in place.

Move the age group to 20 and, IME, people can generally control themselves even when horsing around (guns) and are not as likely to fall prey to peer pressure (voting).
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Post by: Perd Hapley on April 25, 2006, 08:18:00 PM
The thing about teens or young adults is this.  Growing up takes a while, a long while for some of us.  So you can't just throw a sixteen year old the keys to life and say, "Have a nice trip."  On the other hand, that kid will only become an adult through tackling adult problems and taking responsibility.  It seems to me you've got to treat them like adults to a great degree, even though they are not, so that they will become adults.  Someone more mature than my twenty-nine-year-old self could manage my life a lot better, but I'll never mature that way.
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Post by: jefnvk on April 25, 2006, 09:22:41 PM
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I'm thinking long arms at parents discretion, handguns at 15,voting and alcohol at 18
Funny, everytime I hear a minor describing that they should have the right to, and asked what age sounds right, it usually comes out to whatever age they are.

Furthermore, why would you distinguish between handguns and rifles?  Are handguns somehow more dangerous for a 14 year old to have than a rifle?

Since we are also talking about rights and adulthood, if the age for this stuff were dropped to 15, would you support dropping the draft age to 15?

One age limit is what is needed.  Whether it be 18, 21, or something else, everything needs to be the same.
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Post by: Stand_watie on April 25, 2006, 11:05:53 PM
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I'm thinking long arms at parents discretion, handguns at 15,voting and alcohol at 18
Funny, everytime I hear a minor describing that they should have the right to, and asked what age sounds right, it usually comes out to whatever age they are.

Furthermore, why would you distinguish between handguns and rifles?  Are handguns somehow more dangerous for a 14 year old to have than a rifle?

Since we are also talking about rights and adulthood, if the age for this stuff were dropped to 15, would you support dropping the draft age to 15?

One age limit is what is needed.  Whether it be 18, 21, or something else, everything needs to be the same.
Perhaps it should be when no one else can claim you as an exemption on their tax return.
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Post by: Strings on April 25, 2006, 11:50:29 PM
>Perhaps it should be when no one else can claim you as an exemption on their tax return<

DING DING DING! we have a winnah!

 You actually CAN drink and own a handgun prior to 21: IF your parents are willing to provide it (going by Fed law here: some states have their own restrictions). Heck... I recall being able to drink in the tavern at 13 s'long's mom or dad was there (and consented: his may have changed)...

 want the rights of an adult, BE an adult. Wouldn't bother me at all, to have something similar to Starship Troopers, where you have to serve a term of service to become a citizen and enjoy full rights...
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Post by: Guest on April 25, 2006, 11:51:08 PM
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Perhaps it should be when no one else can claim you as an exemption on their tax return.
I think that is 25.
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Post by: bermbuster on April 26, 2006, 01:54:57 AM
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Perhaps it should be when no one else can claim you as an exemption on their tax return.
I think that is 25.
Can I stay on my parents' insurance till I am, oh about 70? Wink
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Post by: cosine on April 26, 2006, 05:04:59 AM
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One age limit is what is needed.  Whether it be 18, 21, or something else, everything needs to be the same.
Exactly what I was trying to say.
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Post by: Brian Williams on April 26, 2006, 05:05:56 AM
This sound like a Movie from the late 60's or early 70's where the children got their right to vote and passed laws to limit old folks....?
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Post by: Justin on April 26, 2006, 08:16:48 AM
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...but this particular generation is brain dead, the thought that 18 year olds i went to school with have ANY say in our goverment sends chills down my spine.
Perhaps the reason the current generation is brain-dead has to do with the fact that our society treats them as such.
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Post by: Headless Thompson Gunner on April 26, 2006, 08:23:40 AM
It may not be fair to deny full rights to young folks.  But is IS sensible.  

Long experience has shown that most young'uns lack the necessary perspective and experience to make serious life and death decisions well.  So we don't give them life or death decisions to make on their own.

There are also the rights of the parents to consider.  Parents ought to have legal authority over their children.  If we grant full rights to children, then there would be no legal way for the parents to have any say in how their children are raised.  It would be left entirely to the children to decide.  

Maybe that would work in some libertarian utopia fantasy.  But in the real world, that would be a disastrer.
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Post by: Perd Hapley on April 26, 2006, 08:34:20 AM
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One age limit is what is needed.  Whether it be 18, 21, or something else, everything needs to be the same.
Why?
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Post by: Felonious Monk/Fignozzle on April 26, 2006, 09:09:00 AM
We've ALL been in those mid to late teen years, straining at the bit for our freedom.  

Those of us who have the perspective of age and experience can look back and know just HOW risky that prospect (freedom over life and death decisions, etc.) would have been for MOST of us at that age, before we understand that freedom and responsibility go hand in hand.

Some of you argue "yeah, but *I* am the EXCEPTION to the rule; my wisdom surpasses all known measure.  It is a crime to humanity to NOT empower me with these freedoms, since *I* could singlehandedly solve all of society's ills."

Sorry, bub.  It's been scientifically proven that the adolescent brain (meaning from puberty to about age 23) is FAR from fully developed; in fact, it has significant areas which are physiologically non-functioning until that process is complete.

I was one of the 'giveittomeNOW' kids, too.  Tried to convince the adults that I needed an emergency exception so I could have my Dr License at 14, had my mom convinced, but it wouldn't fly with dad.  Thankfully.

The results of granting freedoms before responsibility can be handled:
Death or incarceration.
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Post by: K Frame on April 26, 2006, 09:19:36 AM
I personally am in favor of letting 5-year-olds drive.

I figure that gives me about 2.5 years before mtnbkr's daughter parks a car on my chest.
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Post by: Guest on April 26, 2006, 09:45:54 AM
I think children should be their mothers' property until they mutually agree to separate themselves by contract. At that time, the youngster, probably at about the age of puberty (but no particular age) takes on all of the "rights" and responsibilities of adulthood. Third parties should not have a say in the matter, including the fathers.
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Post by: jefnvk on April 26, 2006, 10:17:57 AM
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One age limit is what is needed.  Whether it be 18, 21, or something else, everything needs to be the same.
Why?
It really makes no sense to say that you are a member of society with all responsibilities, yet you aren't really mature enough to have these rights.  Furthermore, some of these limits seem like they are just arbitrary numbers.  Does it really make sense that an 18 year old can handle a shotgun, but is too immature to handle a .22 revolver?  Why does it make sense that teens can drive anywhere they want at 16, but can't drink at home?

mercedes, could work.  Unfortunately, I'm gonna say that you would have to involve the father.  And it would mean that the kid is no longer supported by their parents.
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Post by: Guest on April 26, 2006, 10:28:20 AM
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...mercedes, could work.  Unfortunately, I'm gonna say that you would have to involve the father.
Why? Having two people arguing over who owns the kid causes all kinds of problems now. Having one owner solves more problems than it creates.

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And it would mean that the kid is no longer supported by their parents.
Yes, the new adult would have to support himself.
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Post by: jefnvk on April 26, 2006, 10:56:44 AM
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Why? Having two people arguing over who owns the kid causes all kinds of problems now. Having one owner solves more problems than it creates.
Why?  Because the kid belongs to both.

The only other problem I see, is what if one decides to never accept the contract?  Would there be some age at which they are automatically seperated?  Say, if at 23 or 25 one party is still holding out then if the other wants out, tehy can get out?
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Post by: Guest on April 26, 2006, 11:26:38 AM
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Why? Having two people arguing over who owns the kid causes all kinds of problems now. Having one owner solves more problems than it creates.
Why?  Because the kid belongs to both.
That's your assertion/opinion. Mine is: "Things would work smoother and better if the mother, alone, was considered to be the owner of her children." I am asking you to temporarily think "outside the box".

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The only other problem I see, is what if one decides to never accept the contract?  Would there be some age at which they are automatically seperated?  Say, if at 23 or 25 one party is still holding out then if the other wants out, they can get out?
Maybe it should be the mother's decision, alone?
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Post by: jefnvk on April 26, 2006, 11:34:33 AM
Making it the mother's decision alone would work if it wer ethe kid that didn't accept, but what if it were the mother that didn't accept?

I can see your point about one person making it easier.  However, I don't think making it easier is the best reason for this.  If anything, this should be a hard process to ensure that the kid is being emancipated at the right time.  Furthermore, the two person system works to prevent the opposite that you are trying to prevent.  It seems you are worried about one parent holding up the process, because they don't think the kid is ready.  That is not always a bad thing, though.  It is not hard to see situtations where the kid is begging to be released, and the one parent holding that over the other's head that they alone can do it at any time.
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Post by: Guest on April 26, 2006, 01:14:44 PM
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Making it the mother's decision alone would work if it were the kid that didn't accept, but what if it were the mother that didn't accept?
Didn't accept her own sole decision?

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I can see your point about one person making it easier.
I didn't say it made it "easier". I said it solves more problems than it creates.

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However, I don't think making it easier is the best reason for this.  If anything, this should be a hard process to ensure that the kid is being emancipated at the right time.  Furthermore, the two person system works to prevent the opposite that you are trying to prevent.
I am confused. Shouldn't I be opposed to a system that is the oppposite of my favored one?

 
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It seems you are worried about one parent holding up the process, because they don't think the kid is ready.  That is not always a bad thing, though.  It is not hard to see situtations where the kid is begging to be released, and the one parent holding that over the other's head that they alone can do it at any time.
What is the bad consequence in your scenario? What would the wife be trying to force the father to do? "Buy me a fur or I'll liberate my son!"
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Post by: zahc on April 26, 2006, 04:27:03 PM
Felonius Fig and others: I am 20 years old, and live half a country away from my parents on my own, and have for years now. If/When (hopefully never) I am the victim of violent crime, perhaps at my second job delivering pizza, I will be sure to remember that I'm not mature enough to legally defend my life like an adult. I have the house, the bills, and I pay the taxes. With responsibilities should come rights. Specifically handgun ownership.

You may say, 'All those complaining seem to conveniently want the age limit lowered to their age'.

I say, notice how all the people defending the tyranny are convenienly old enough that it doesn't affect them. Just another case of 'too much scary freedom for that OTHER group of people'.

The idea of a contractual 'adult contract' is an intriguing one, though.
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Post by: Guest on April 26, 2006, 05:37:53 PM
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Perhaps the reason the current generation is brain-dead has to do with the fact that our society treats them as such.
Nope,  society created the problem.  Not requiring anything of "kids these days" is the biggest catalyst.  as a farm kid, i grew up working constantly, and goofing off any time i wasn't.  I learned respect for my parents early,  and that with responsability came rewards.  a minimum of time was spent in front of the TV/video games.  All that work brought me money for whatever i wanted (1st kid with a truck bought and paid for CASH in my school), and i even managed to save a bit of the money i made)

unlike the majority of my peers during highschool, who did jack *expletive deleted*it other than dick around on skateboards and listen to music about suicide after school and bitch constantly about how rough they had it (or pretend to be depressed and wear all black).  Don't even start me on the "ganstas"....  lack of discipline and work ethic is the issue.  this generation was given too much free rein too soon,  it was NEVER earned.      

BTW, class of 04' here.
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Post by: hoppinglark on April 26, 2006, 05:56:23 PM
The system we have is good, at 18 you're an adult EXCEPT for handguns and alcohol.
If we put those two at 18 then it would make sense, and while we are at it, go ahead and raise the driving age to 18, because after all the automobile is the single most dangerous consumer product.

I'm 25 by the way. So none of this would affect me directly since this year I'm finally old enough to rent a car in all 50 states.
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Post by: HForrest on April 26, 2006, 11:43:55 PM
This is my problem with charging minors as adults for crimes. I don't care how heinous the crime is or how much the perpetrator deserves an adult punishment, minors are legally judged to be too stupid to handle adult responsibilities, and have little freedom... so they shouldn't be treated like an adult when considering punishment for crimes.
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Post by: Guest on April 27, 2006, 07:37:58 AM
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This is my problem with charging minors as adults for crimes. I don't care how heinous the crime is or how much the perpetrator deserves an adult punishment, minors are legally judged to be too stupid to handle adult responsibilities, and have little freedom... so they shouldn't be treated like an adult when considering punishment for crimes.
If you are talking pre-pubescents, you should be allowed to charge the mother. She is the one that raised an uncivilized person and neglected to protect society from her property.
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Post by: Stand_watie on April 27, 2006, 08:34:42 PM
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Making it the mother's decision alone would work if it were the kid that didn't accept, but what if it were the mother that didn't accept?
Didn't accept her own sole decision?

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I can see your point about one person making it easier.
I didn't say it made it "easier". I said it solves more problems than it creates.

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However, I don't think making it easier is the best reason for this.  If anything, this should be a hard process to ensure that the kid is being emancipated at the right time.  Furthermore, the two person system works to prevent the opposite that you are trying to prevent.
I am confused. Shouldn't I be opposed to a system that is the oppposite of my favored one?

 
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It seems you are worried about one parent holding up the process, because they don't think the kid is ready.  That is not always a bad thing, though.  It is not hard to see situtations where the kid is begging to be released, and the one parent holding that over the other's head that they alone can do it at any time.
What is the bad consequence in your scenario? What would the wife be trying to force the father to do? "Buy me a fur or I'll liberate my son!"
You're not just trying to get out of child support payments are you?

Your fatherless society has already been tried with abysmal consequences in sub-saharan africa and welfare projects all across america.
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Post by: Stand_watie on April 27, 2006, 08:50:31 PM
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Felonius Fig and others: I am 20 years old, and live half a country away from my parents on my own, and have for years now. If/When (hopefully never) I am the victim of violent crime, perhaps at my second job delivering pizza, I will be sure to remember that I'm not mature enough to legally defend my life like an adult. I have the house, the bills, and I pay the taxes. With responsibilities should come rights. Specifically handgun ownership...
I don't know where you live, but handgun posession (actual ownership at any age) is legal at 18 in many states. Carrying a handgun with a permit at 18 is legal in Indiana, I think without a permit in Alaska and Vermont.

You have a very good point though. In four or five more years my ten year old daughter will (hopefully) be responsible enough to carry a gun unsupervised and within a short time after that have as much need for one as any grown woman, although not yet likely to be mature enough to  marry or vote.
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Post by: Perd Hapley on April 28, 2006, 07:57:18 PM
Merc, the children-as-property concept sounds similar to that of ancient Rome.  Are you familiar with pater-familias?  Sounds worse to me, though, as fathers are much more capable of supporting their kids financially.  Your idea would lead to a whole lot more struggling single momma's than we have now.  

Since you like contracts so much, try this.  In your proposed anarchic world, sex entails a contract whereby each participant tacitly agrees to raise and support any products of said union and to support the other parent.  Sound good?
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Post by: Guest on April 29, 2006, 09:43:59 AM
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Merc, the children-as-property concept sounds similar to that of ancient Rome.  Are you familiar with pater-familias?  Sounds worse to me, though, as fathers are much more capable of supporting their kids financially.  Your idea would lead to a whole lot more struggling single momma's than we have now.
Why more? Maybe it would lead to a lot fewer "single" mommas, period? Maybe the phony statist fantasy that the father will be tracked and fined all around the world through his SS number on his driver's license would give way to actual planning on how to raise the child before it appears?  Why can men automatically earn more money? There would be no child support disagreements. It is usually fathers that are associated with child abuse and incest.

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Since you like contracts so much, try this.  In your proposed anarchic world, sex entails a contract whereby each participant tacitly agrees to raise and support any products of said union and to support the other parent.  Sound good?
Two owners makes it harder to assign responsibility for the child's uncivilized actions.
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Post by: Guest on April 29, 2006, 09:47:38 AM
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Making it the mother's decision alone would work if it were the kid that didn't accept, but what if it were the mother that didn't accept?
Didn't accept her own sole decision?

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I can see your point about one person making it easier.
I didn't say it made it "easier". I said it solves more problems than it creates.

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However, I don't think making it easier is the best reason for this.  If anything, this should be a hard process to ensure that the kid is being emancipated at the right time.  Furthermore, the two person system works to prevent the opposite that you are trying to prevent.
I am confused. Shouldn't I be opposed to a system that is the oppposite of my favored one?

 
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It seems you are worried about one parent holding up the process, because they don't think the kid is ready.  That is not always a bad thing, though.  It is not hard to see situtations where the kid is begging to be released, and the one parent holding that over the other's head that they alone can do it at any time.
What is the bad consequence in your scenario? What would the wife be trying to force the father to do? "Buy me a fur or I'll liberate my son!"
You're not just trying to get out of child support payments are you?
Yes. Smiley

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Your fatherless society has already been tried with abysmal consequences in sub-saharan africa and welfare projects all across america.
I never suggest a "welfare project"; I am a Free-Market Anarchist.

 What actually happened in Africa, Stand_watie?
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Post by: Chuck Dye on April 29, 2006, 04:46:37 PM
Ahh!  Perhaps what we need is Heinleinian justice:  let the kiddies do as they wish but ruthlessly cull the screwups.
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Post by: Stand_watie on April 29, 2006, 04:58:44 PM
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... What actually happened in Africa, Stand_watie?
I don't claim to refer to Africa as a whole. In matriarchal africa, kids do, and have done what kids without fathers have done ever since...

a)God created man

or

b)We were apes

which is to act like animals. Same in the welfare projects. Take dad (or mom for that matter) out of the family and you get animals.
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Post by: Guest on April 30, 2006, 12:09:35 PM
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... What actually happened in Africa, Stand_watie?
I don't claim to refer to Africa as a whole. In matriarchal africa, kids do, and have done what kids without fathers have done ever since...

a)God created man

or

b)We were apes

which is to act like animals. Same in the welfare projects. Take dad (or mom for that matter) out of the family and you get animals.
I'd better stay away from the Africa topic but suffice it to say I don't advocate welfare nor abolishment of the family. Only that the mother own the child until puberty or 13 or so for legal purposes. Of course, fathers can stay with the mom and child at their pleasure and contribute voluntarily. Forcing them to causes many negative consequences.
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Post by: brimic on April 30, 2006, 01:43:18 PM
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Of course, fathers can stay with the mom and child at their pleasure and contribute voluntarily. Forcing them to causes many negative consequences.
I like that idea under one condition: a man who fathers a child and doesn't want to have anything to do with it should be neutered  to prevent him from putting any future burdens on society.
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Post by: Guest on April 30, 2006, 03:54:50 PM
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Of course, fathers can stay with the mom and child at their pleasure and contribute voluntarily. Forcing them to causes many negative consequences.
I like that idea under one condition: a man who fathers a child and doesn't want to have anything to do with it should be neutered  to prevent him from putting any future burdens on society.
"Society" should not be burdened by anything. That (collectivism) is the disgrace. It would be solely the mother's job to raise the child. If she could persuade others to help voluntarily, great!
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Post by: Stand_watie on April 30, 2006, 07:01:13 PM
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"Society" should not be burdened by anything. That (collectivism) is the disgrace. It would be solely the mother's job to raise the child. If she could persuade others to help voluntarily, great!
That would pretty well describe the family situation of matriarchal africa and american welfare projects. How do you think those are working out? Cheesy Great! Cheesy
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Post by: mr.v. on May 01, 2006, 03:38:03 PM
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As an almost 15 year old kid, I love having my constitutional rights taken away from me.
where does the constituion give kids any rights?
Even as the founding fathers drafted the constitution they were beating their children with tree-switches...Sometimes they left independence hall just to give a stiff boot to their childrens' butts as they were granting felons freedom from cruel and unusual punishment. Just be glad children have an amazing amount of rights this day and age. If this were ancient greece (a "democratic" society) you would have been legally molested by 30-40 guys when you turned 10...but maybe one of them would have bought you Grand Theft Auto: San Andreas as a symbolic "reach around".
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Post by: jefnvk on May 01, 2006, 03:51:19 PM
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If this were ancient greece (a "democratic" society) you would have been legally molested by 30-40 guys when you turned 10...but maybe one of them would have bought you Grand Theft Auto: San Andreas as a symbolic "reach around".
Huh?
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Post by: Guest on May 01, 2006, 05:33:03 PM
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"Society" should not be burdened by anything. That (collectivism) is the disgrace. It would be solely the mother's job to raise the child. If she could persuade others to help voluntarily, great!
That would pretty well describe the family situation of matriarchal africa and american welfare projects. How do you think those are working out? Cheesy Great! Cheesy
Why are you ignoring that I said that I advocate no welfare (where strangers are forced by the state to pay for other peoples' needs)? American projects are state subsidized.
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Post by: Stand_watie on May 01, 2006, 07:31:25 PM
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...Why are you ignoring that I said that I advocate no welfare (where strangers are forced by the state to pay for other peoples' needs)? American projects are state subsidized.
It's nice that we wouldn't have to subsisidize welfare, but that hardly alleviates the problem of kids not having fathers.
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Post by: Guest on May 02, 2006, 09:21:48 AM
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...Why are you ignoring that I said that I advocate no welfare (where strangers are forced by the state to pay for other peoples' needs)? American projects are state subsidized.
It's nice that we wouldn't have to subsisidize welfare, but that hardly alleviates the problem of kids not having fathers.
Not every "problem" can be solved by laws.
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Post by: Stand_watie on May 02, 2006, 06:49:29 PM
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Not every "problem" can be solved by laws.
Indeed. In this case you've proposed we change a status quo of thousands of years with (I presume) a law taking away a father's rights and responsibilities to his children.
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Post by: Guest on May 03, 2006, 06:20:55 AM
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Not every "problem" can be solved by laws.
Indeed. In this case you've proposed we change a status quo of thousands of years with (I presume) a law taking away a father's rights and responsibilities to his children.
No, with the repeal of laws forcing fathers to act in certain ways. Different cultures already experiment with childrearing duties. The US's method isn't really working out all that well, anyhow: witness 50% divorce rate, questions on punishing child criminals, SS#s required on driver's licenses to track "deadbeat dads", constant abortion debates (with bombings), murders over custody disagreements, paternity suits, talk about getting everyone's DNA, restraining orders, etc.

 I am an anarchist so all I'm saying is that it is worth a try to consider children the property of the women that gave birth to them as the best way of dealing with children and their legal implications. These would include crime/punishment, support, abortion and divorce/custody. Up until a certain age or level of development the mother is responsible for the actions of the child. After that, the child is responsible.
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Post by: jefnvk on May 03, 2006, 09:16:57 AM
So why not make the father the sole parent with responsibilities?
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Post by: Guest on May 03, 2006, 12:17:48 PM
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So why not make the father the sole parent with responsibilities?
Because there is never any disagreement about who the mother is?

 The mother could sell/give her property to others, of course, including the father.
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Post by: Stand_watie on May 03, 2006, 03:12:32 PM
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Not every "problem" can be solved by laws.
Indeed. In this case you've proposed we change a status quo of thousands of years with (I presume) a law taking away a father's rights and responsibilities to his children.
No, with the repeal of laws forcing fathers to act in certain ways. Different cultures already experiment with childrearing duties. The US's method isn't really working out all that well, anyhow: witness 50% divorce rate, questions on punishing child criminals, SS#s required on driver's licenses to track "deadbeat dads", constant abortion debates (with bombings), murders over custody disagreements, paternity suits, talk about getting everyone's DNA, restraining orders, etc.

 I am an anarchist so all I'm saying is that it is worth a try to consider children the property of the women that gave birth to them as the best way of dealing with children and their legal implications. These would include crime/punishment, support, abortion and divorce/custody. Up until a certain age or level of development the mother is responsible for the actions of the child. After that, the child is responsible.
Could you provide me with any examples of societies that have fewer rights and responsibilities of fathers regarding their children that you believe do it better?
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Post by: Guest on May 03, 2006, 05:07:48 PM
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Indeed. In this case you've proposed we change a status quo of thousands of years with (I presume) a law taking away a father's rights and responsibilities to his children.
No, with the repeal of laws forcing fathers to act in certain ways. Different cultures already experiment with childrearing duties. The US's method isn't really working out all that well, anyhow: witness 50% divorce rate, questions on punishing child criminals, SS#s required on driver's licenses to track "deadbeat dads", constant abortion debates (with bombings), murders over custody disagreements, paternity suits, talk about getting everyone's DNA, restraining orders, etc.

 I am an anarchist so all I'm saying is that it is worth a try to consider children the property of the women that gave birth to them as the best way of dealing with children and their legal implications. These would include crime/punishment, support, abortion and divorce/custody. Up until a certain age or level of development the mother is responsible for the actions of the child. After that, the child is responsible.
Could you provide me with any examples of societies that have fewer rights and responsibilities of fathers regarding their children that you believe do it better?
No. I am trying to think of possible solutions for the complaints mentioned by the person who started the thread. The solutions are based on the idea that a stateless society would have less institutionalized coercion and more individual liberty.
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Post by: brimic on May 03, 2006, 05:27:16 PM
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The solutions are based on the idea that a stateless society would have less institutionalized coercion and more individual liberty.
Only if the local warlord allows it.
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Post by: Guest on May 04, 2006, 06:00:43 AM
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The solutions are based on the idea that a stateless society would have less institutionalized coercion and more individual liberty.
Only if the local warlord allows it.
He has to sleep sometime. Smiley
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Post by: RevDisk on May 04, 2006, 10:26:34 AM
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Hey, you think it's bad at age 15, well, legally I'm an adult (18) but guess what? I can't drink, buy a handgun, etc. That's probably my biggest pet peeve. If you're going to define someone legally as an adult, give them all the rights and privileges of an adult. rolleyes
Hey, when I was 18, the government gave me access to handguns, automatic weapons and tracked vehicles.  Yet, they said I wasn't trustworthy to drink or own handguns.   The same govt that gave me a belt fed 40mm freakin automatic grenade launcher claimed that I was not responsible enough to own a .22 plinking pistol or pick up a six pack after work.   Sigh

Uh...   Yep, makes perfect sense.
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Post by: mr.v. on May 04, 2006, 11:07:34 PM
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Hey, when I was 18, the government gave me access to handguns, automatic weapons and tracked vehicles.  Yet, they said I wasn't trustworthy to drink or own handguns.
Yeah...but they figure it's okay for a youngster to operate a 40mm grenade-launcher so long as someone with a gruff, authoritative voice is constantly informing he or she that this person is a "snot-nosed little maggot" whom he can "crap bigger th'n"