I kind of figured display calibration wouldn't be worth your time, given the reason you bought the camera.
Here's how to read a histogram in simple terms:
Think of the histogram as a chart. The horizontal access represents exposure. The far left is zero, for compete black, and the far right is 255, for complete white. The vertical axis represents pixel count. The higher the line at a given horizontal value, the more pixels in the image have an exposure rating at that value. For a black and white image you only have one histogram. For color images your actually have four. One for red, one for green, one for blue, and one that is a mashup of all three. If your camera or image software only shows you one histogram for a color image then it's the last one I mentioned.
So, what does it all mean? If the vertical lines on your histogram slope up from zero, have nice peaks and valleys, and slope back down to 255 then you probably have a well exposed image. Than means that nothing in the image has been rendered completely black, thus losing shadow detail, and nothing has been rendered completely white, thus losing highlight detail (aka blown highlights). If the veritcal lines on the histogram are bunched up at the left side of the graph then your image is under exposed. If they are bunched up at the right end, your image is over exposed. Ideally, you want the first condition I mentioned. Nothing's perfect, so you'll always be settling for a compromise.
In practice, with a DSLR you are better off under exposing and pulling the exposure up in post because DSLR sensors are extremely good at preserving shadow detail, but absolutely awful at preserving highlights (actually all image sensors stink at preserving highlights, but the big one's in DSLR stink at it less than the small ones in compact digicams). This is where raw comes into play because then you're playing with ALL the data the sensor has to offer. Anywhere from 12-14 bits per pixel. JPG data is only 8 bits per pixel. Much more data to work with in the raw file, which is why you can do what you can with them.