i was under the impression that the agencys involved are pretty clear that the older the child, the more difficult its going to be in adapting them to american life after being at the bottem of the barrel in russia for so long.
Call me funny, but wouldn't you want a thorough med check and diagnostics on any kid you intend to adopt? Yes, it'd make adoption harder for the problem children, which I am guessing Russia wants to offload, but it would seem fairly normal to ask for that.
The problem is that the Russian orphanages will pull a bait-n-switch on Americans looking to adopt. They'll promise infants, or at least toddlers, and then "Surprise!" only the psychopathic seven year olds and older with detachment disorder, FAS, and God knows what else, are available when the prospective parents arrive. They know the parents are at their most vulnerable, and will guilt them into taking an older child home.
Amusingly a lot of the Russian news-sites I read are siding with the mother in this.
I'm not surprised, if they're honest, they know just how deeply damaged the children in their orphanages can be, and how unethical the people on their side of the adoptions are sometimes.
For the time being, it is hard to say what happened to Artyom in the United States. It is hard to understand the reason why the foster parents decided that the boy did not fit their family. The orphanage, from where he was adopted, described him as a very attentive, responsive, peaceful and even vulnerable child.
Elsewhere on the net, someone was claiming they know the family as casual acquaintances through church and around town, met the adoptive family and the boy at a Walmart accidentally. They stated it was obvious the boy was "deeply disturbed" and was nearly uncontrollable, and liked to hit his head on things like display cases, shelves, and the floor.
Complete hearsay, but a search on that person turned up enough local meets and functions and pictures it seems unlikely they were lying just for the hell of it.