Yet, instead of trying to fix those issues, you just want to make marriage mean anyone + anyone. Problem solved. Do you work for the govt?
Yes, I do. (want GovMarriage to mean anyone+anyone) I do not work for the government.
You fail to see that marriage is NOT just a religious institution, it is a government sanctioned institution, also.
See, there are really 2 institutions with the same name, different things.
There's GovMarriage, which the government recognizes, and makes many things easier for those involved, involves taxes, etc.
Then there's ReligMarriage, which churches and mosques and temples recognise.
GovMarriage, as long as it's a government sanctioned status should be for anyone who wants it.
As long as any GovMarriage is a government sanctioned institution, the government portion cannot and should not be restricted.
your church can and should be free to ReligMarry (using their rites and rituals) whoever they want.
The government should not restrict "GovMarriage", the government institution, to anyone.
Religious institutions should be allowed to do just that. I don't want Baptist ministers forced to ReligMarry gay people or anyone else if they don't want to.
As I said before, the 2 institutions really need to be separated, with marriage being a purely religious institution, and "civil unions" being a purely government institution. Marital status meaning nothing to a government, and "civil union" status meaning nothing to a religious institution.