Lenny, my dad and brother had the prostate scraping/reduction thing. My brother said it's a very uncomfortable thing. He had it twice and has had a couple urinary tract infections since. Better than cancer though.
Barrett's Esophagus: I've had acid reflux for over 60 years and that led to Barrett's. Stable, no cancer. My doc has me on Pantoprazole twice a day. An acid inhibitor. It is supposed to also have a healing property and keep, hopefully, Barrett's esophageal cancer at bay. So far so good.
I had prostate cancer in 2005. Age 61. Long story with respect to all the options. After exploring all of them, I went with surgery with the DaVinci robot by a top doc in that arena. DaVinci has many positives. No incontinence. No more boners...but not dead. The other options have worse side effects and if they don't work, preclude any surgery later. I could write a lot about what I found, but not in the mood other than one friend did radiation and lost a kidney and a good deal of his health and another who watchful waited....died.
PS: Lenny, as you get older you're gonna be getting up and peeing 1 or 2 or 3 times a night anyway no matter whether you have a prostate or not.