I don't know how I would have perceived this issue, if gayzor marridge hadn't been an issue first.
I feel government's place is really only to recognize marriages,* for logistical purposes. I honestly don't know if government should just duly record polygamous marriages; or say, "No, sorry, we don't recognize that here in America. Do what you want, but we won't have anything to do with it."
We now labor under the curious notion that we must pretend that our nation does not have a particular culture. We must make everyone feel right at home, even when their moral beliefs, or religious practices, or lifestyle choices are repugnant to ours. I think perhaps it is time to just be honest with ourselves, and admit that practicing Muslims cannot live alongside practicing Christians, alongside practicing Social Justice Warriors, without a lot of feelings being hurt. Laws are the product of cultures, and someone's always going to feel put upon.
* That is, actual marriages, involving both sexes.