I have a lot of fires in my fireplace. usually, if I have kindling, stuff newspaper under the grate, lots of kindling on top in an"X" pattern, and two or three pieces of bigger wood on top. Light the paper, and off you go. Leave enough room between the wood for good convection (airflow) but not enough to make is not catch.
I like the tea candle idea. Have to experiment with that one.
Also used fire-loggs, and my dad and grandmother use/used a meatl ball, about 2" diameter, on a stick with a handle, that diped in kerosene. Dip it in the kerosene, roll it around in the ashes, and light it. Worked every time, but you had to keep a covered container of kerosene nearby.
-Love, James