Author Topic: Men: Would you prefer to marry a virgin woman? (Read 5377 times)

Pb · « **on:** July 25, 2018, 11:39:01 AM »

Hypothetically, what is your preference?

lupinus · « **Reply #1 on:** July 25, 2018, 12:15:28 PM »

Why the hell would I do that? I don't even buy a car without a test drive first.

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Fly320s · « **Reply #2 on:** July 25, 2018, 12:35:04 PM »

Quote from: lupinus on July 25, 2018, 12:15:28 PM

Why the hell would I do that? I don't even buy a car without a test drive first.

Same from me. Gotta make sure everything fits and works correctly.

zxcvbob · « **Reply #3 on:** July 25, 2018, 12:47:55 PM »

Thirty-something years ago, yes. If I were to remarry (wife dies or something), I'm not a virgin anymore and I wouldn't expect her to be either.

HeroHog · « **Reply #4 on:** July 25, 2018, 01:26:50 PM »

No, I would rather that she not wonder what it would be like with someone else. Granted, I don't want a woman who has been "rode hard and put up wet" either!

HeroHog · « **Reply #5 on:** July 25, 2018, 01:36:32 PM »

Quote from: lupinus on July 25, 2018, 12:15:28 PM

Why the hell would I do that? I don't even buy a car without a test drive first.

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1) A woman is NOT a car.
2) Sex is learned. It gets better over time. As you stay together longer and longer, you learn what you and they like and you adapt. If you can't tell from dating if they are compatible with your ways or at least willing to meet half way, DON'T MARRY THEM!
3) Once the "new" wears off, are you still happy with your new "toy?" That Ferrari might be a ball to play with but that expensive maintenance and rough, sporty, ride gets old when you need something to live with daily. Do you want a toy or something to keep "until death do you part?"

BobR · « **Reply #6 on:** July 25, 2018, 01:40:37 PM »

Quote from: HeroHog on July 25, 2018, 01:36:32 PM

1) A woman is NOT a car.
2) Sex is learned. It gets better over time. As you stay together longer and longer, you learn what you and they like and you adapt. If you can't tell from dating if they are compatible with your ways or at least willing to meet half way, DON'T MARRY THEM!
3) Once the "new" wears off, are you still happy with your new "toy?" That Ferrari might be a ball to play with but that expensive maintenance and rough, sporty, ride gets old when you need something to live with daily. Do you want a toy or something to keep "until death do you part?"

Well hell, since you put it that way I guess I would go with the toy, I can at least change it up every few years if needed.

bob

Fly320s · « **Reply #7 on:** July 25, 2018, 01:49:51 PM »

Quote from: HeroHog on July 25, 2018, 01:36:32 PM

1) A woman is NOT a car.
2) Sex is learned. It gets better over time. As you stay together longer and longer, you learn what you and they like and you adapt. If you can't tell from dating if they are compatible with your ways or at least willing to meet half way, DON'T MARRY THEM!
3) Once the "new" wears off, are you still happy with your new "toy?" That Ferrari might be a ball to play with but that expensive maintenance and rough, sporty, ride gets old when you need something to live with daily. Do you want a toy or something to keep "until death do you part?"

Lighten up, Francis.

French G. · « **Reply #8 on:** July 25, 2018, 01:55:50 PM »

Nothing like being married when you find out you're not compatible in that way and you lose interest and then take all the blame.

HeroHog · « **Reply #9 on:** July 25, 2018, 01:55:55 PM »

Take the advice or don't. No skin off my nose either way. My 1st marriage lasted a whole year, and that was a little over a year too damn long. My second marriage has lasted 38 years and is still going. I must have learned something along the way.

HeroHog · « **Reply #10 on:** July 25, 2018, 02:00:06 PM »

Note that I voted "No." I figure that 99.999% will have sex with their chosen bride before the marriage and will find out if the other isn't into sex, has some strange fetish, of can't get off unless you wear a chicken costume. I just don't care for the "car" analogy for the reasons I've already stated.

(my wife is now sitting next to me squawking like a damned chicken and laughing her cloaca off)

dogmush · « **Reply #11 on:** July 25, 2018, 02:09:23 PM »

No, for a variety of reasons.

Not sure why, outside of religious proscriptions, one would want one.

Clarification: I'm not judging on the various religious proscriptions, I just don't share them.

zahc · « **Reply #12 on:** July 25, 2018, 03:35:42 PM »

Yes, of course. Why wouldn't one? Haven't virgins been highly prized for all of human history? When did this change?

Number of previous partners is only one parameter to be considered, and maybe it's not that important, but to the extent that it's worth considering, it's a monotonic function. If you can understand why 2 previous partners is better than 200, then you should be able to see why 0 is best.

Perhaps I'm ignorant but is there some Christian proscription on marrying non-virgins?

Scout26 · « **Reply #13 on:** July 25, 2018, 04:13:22 PM »

I'm 53 years old. IF I were to marry again, the chance of finding a virgin (unless I start prowling elementary, middle and possibly high schools), is pretty much non-existent. Unless she is so far above the Hot-Crazy line, that no man was willing to endure that to get to the end zone, so to speak.

So my answer was no preference.

https://pics.me.me/google-maps-acquires-snapchat-2-people-have-been-here-love-30538413.png

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MJEAGd1bQuc

BlueStarLizzard · « **Reply #14 on:** July 25, 2018, 04:42:47 PM »

Never understood why a man would want a virgin on his wedding night anyway...

After all that waiting and she's going to go "Holy *expletive deleted*it! PAIN!! Get THAT THING OUT OF ME!!!"

(BTW, I may have skewed the results. Voted "no preference" so I could see the poll)

and the reason virginity was prized for centuries had nothing to do with quality and everything to do with paternity of children. Duh.

Scout26 · « **Reply #15 on:** July 25, 2018, 04:50:56 PM »

Quote from: bluestarlizzard on July 25, 2018, 04:42:47 PM

Never understood why a man would want a virgin on his wedding night anyway...

After all that waiting and she's going to go "Holy *expletive deleted*it! PAIN!! Get THAT THING OUT OF ME!!!"

(BTW, I may have skewed the results. Voted "no preference" so I could see the poll)

and the reason virginity was prized for centuries had nothing to do with quality and everything to do with paternity of children. Duh.

And being disease free.

lupinus · « **Reply #16 on:** July 25, 2018, 04:55:57 PM »

Girls barely out of puberty were also highly prized throughout history. So meh.

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BlueStarLizzard · « **Reply #17 on:** July 25, 2018, 04:56:21 PM »

Quote from: Amy Schumer on July 25, 2018, 04:50:56 PM

And being disease free.

*snort* If the guys were so worried about disease free they wouldn't have all been banging the tavern wench before and after marrying their blushing virginal bride.

lupinus · « **Reply #18 on:** July 25, 2018, 04:58:29 PM »

Quote from: bluestarlizzard on July 25, 2018, 04:56:21 PM

*snort* If the guys were so worried about disease free they wouldn't have all been banging the tavern wench before and after marrying their blushing virginal bride.

Well if they weren't banging the tavern wench how else were they supposed to have a steady supply of virgins?

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BlueStarLizzard · « **Reply #19 on:** July 25, 2018, 04:59:00 PM »

Quote from: lupinus on July 25, 2018, 04:55:57 PM

Girls barely out of puberty were also highly prized throughout history. So meh.

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That's also for breeding purposes. Shorter lifespans meant marry 'em off as soon as they could produce children so you could get as many kids out of one female as possible...

Often backfired though, since it results in higher rates of death from childbirth.

just Warren · « **Reply #20 on:** July 25, 2018, 05:54:09 PM »

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chance of finding a virgin (unless (you) start prowling elementary, middle and possibly high schools), is pretty much non-existent.

I hope we're not running out of marriage-age virgins.

What else would we use to placate the Volcano Gods?

You don't want to anger the Volcano Gods do you?

Andiron · « **Reply #21 on:** July 25, 2018, 06:15:20 PM »

Quote from: Warren on July 25, 2018, 05:54:09 PM

I hope we're not running out of marriage-age virgins.

What else would we use to placate the Volcano Gods?

You don't want to anger the Volcano Gods do you?

Finally a use for David Hogg...

just Warren · « **Reply #22 on:** July 25, 2018, 06:19:49 PM »

I'm guessing Hogg is getting as much attention in that area as he can handle.

He's a shining beacon of goodness and light, this attracts certain sorts and there's no way he hasn't gone swimming in that groupie stream.

HeroHog · « **Reply #23 on:** July 25, 2018, 07:24:05 PM »

(shudder!)

230RN · « **Reply #24 on:** July 26, 2018, 12:14:17 AM »

Damn you, HeroHog. I've been waiting for years to craft a good pun with cloaca.

I voted no preference. Doesn't make a vast difference.

(Go ahead ^. You know you want to. :D )

However, regarding the poll question, isn't "virgin woman" a sort of contradiction in terms?

Terry

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