Barbara,
Right now, on vacation till July 12th. Work for couple weeks. Surgery at U of M on July 28th, home on 29th. Recuperation takes about 2 weeks, malinger for another week, minimum, err, maybe two. Other than the obvious side trip to Ann Arbor, seems like a got a summer vacation I haven't had since grade school.
I actually feel pretty good. It's not a thing that generally gives one any discomfort unless it's advanced. (My little invader is not) After awhile the shock sort of wears off. I actually don't think about it much and when I do, I have a sense of calm confidence tempered with a sense of wonder.
I did catch myself looking at a package of Depends for Men in the drug store this morning, heh heh heh. SWMBO is not feeling so sorry for me anymore either, so my free pass on an extra cocktail or two and a jelly donut has been revoked..sigh.....