Monkeyleg,
I linked you to income figures and job prospects - that's how you measure how most people are doing. GDP can expand by several orders of magnitude while leaving most people impoverished; per-capita GDP is a measurement based on population versus overall production. It doesn't tell you who got the increase.
Now, for death rate, no, I did not use that in talking about healthcare - I used average life expectancy, which is also down in Iraq. Also, if you look above, I did not say the death rate has nothing to do with "quality of life" - I said it's a measure of population growth, ie, specifically, the proportion of young versus old. Life expectancy and homicide numbers tell you how many people are being killed and how long people get to live.
Also, mobs of people in DC who so threaten government buildings that they need to be shot at to disperse them are not common. You do also realised that the Prime Minister recently announced he won't run for another term, in response to the protests? Protests all over are demanding the restoration of basic services and the resignations of local governors.
There's more protest activity right now, and more violence to stop it, in Iraq than in Iran.