Sigh. I know than a few folks that bought it in the sandbox, or Afghanistan, or "complications" from wounds. Then others that are kinda worse in a way. Training accidents, vehicle accidents, neg discharges. Just as dead, but they won't be remembered as dying for anything but an accident.
After a while, the funerals blur together.
Chris, the hurting isn't a bad thing. Shows someone cares.
When the hurting stops and turns into nothingness, that's when it's bad.