One of the legacies of the Cold War is for better or worse this country is unwilling to commit the kind of genocide that winning a war without BOG would take. If we were to refight WWII now, with ICBM's, I don't think we would nuke the home islands. We'd invade instead.
I agree with you in theory some wars can be one without BOG. There are still times that are strategic goals involve not completely destroying the place and we need something a little more surgical than an Illudium Q-36 space modulator. That need, along with our nations aversion to committing to a war for real, mean the infantry is safe for a while. I just hope we get power armor soon.
Speaking of power armor...I was part of the kick-off team for the DARPA exoskeleton project (one of my inputs was I wanted to use an M230 30mm chain gun as an infantry weapon).
Since then, and having worked on a few parts of it, I can tell you this...if you -really- wanted to, you could build a power armor suit somewhere between Ironman (minus the flying, but that form factor) and a more traditional sci-fi system (I.e. 2.5-3m tall, about a metric ton or two) right now, and have it be pretty decent, but it would cost about $10-20M each for the latter, and $150M for the former.