Who to talk to about extremely personal matters?

[Bogie]

I think that a general sanity litmus test is first at hand...

Post a picture of her. If we agree that she's hot, you're sane.

If she isn't, we'll look into a tour of the head shed...
 
Grin.
 
Dude, there's all sorts of problems. And most of them are pretty damn minor, when it gets right down to it.
 

[Monkeyleg]

Bogie, I've posted a photo of my wife on APS before, and Fistful gave me a very polite reaming for doing so.

I wouldn't be putting up a post about something very personal if it were just day-to-day problems. This is something completely foreign to me.

I've contacted one APS member, and we'll talk next week.

And, so, let's hope that this is the end of this thread.

For those who won't be logging on for the next couple of days, thanks for the replies, and please have a very happy New Year.

[Desertdog]

I will not talk to people about my extremely personal matters either.

From past experience I found that when I was going through my own private hell, the two prayers that I said was the Serenity Prayer and the Lord's Prayer, over and over again as needed.  It helped

Finally, I went to a 12 Step Group where we could say what we were thinking.

Most people think that 12 Step Groups are for Alchoholics or Druggies, but there are groups for just about anything; in person or on line.  Just search the web. 
First names only is used, unless you want your last name known.

My wife is 56 and still turn a lot of men's heads.