For the churchgoers.
Does anyone here give 10% of gross/pretax income to their church? Why? Why this amount, and why that church?
My wife was raised to think that doing so is required for obedience to the scriptures. I wasn't.
This all started up again when she got laid off, which she attributes to God's punishment for not giving this amount to Him our church.
I'm just wondering if this 10% gross thing is commoner than I think.
Yes, it's a fairly common concept in US Christianity. After all, those megachurchers and Christian television evangelists had to get financed somehow.
In reality, the scriptural concept of tithing is not as simple as 10% off the top of one's gross pay. Actually, making a case for that is a pretty big stretch. Those who preach the prosperity gospel are quite adapt at making that stretch appear all good and effortless.
While the concept existed prior to the law of Moses (Genesis 14 and Genesis 28), afterwards is was a rule set up to provide for the the Levites, the expenses of the tabernacle and later the temple, and to provide a means of support for the needy, orphans, and widows. In Leviticus 27:30 it was set down that the tithe was to be a tenth of all produce and livestock. No other trade, work, or other form of income was tithed. If you wanted to pay your tithe in gold or silver instead you had pony up the value of produce or livestock and then add 20%. In Deuteronomy 14 the tithe law is changed after Israel ends their nomadic life and begins to settle down in the Promised Land. They are now commanded by God to set aside their tithe so that they have something to use for their pilgrimages to Jerusalem for the feasts. They are allowed to exchange their tithe for gold or silver without the 20% add-on if they cannot carry it to Jerusalem. At the end of every third year they are to store the tithe in their towns for the benefit of the Levites, the widows, and the orphans. In fact, in Malachi 3 when God accuses the Isrealites of robbing him this is what he is referring to. They are robbing him by not providing for the less fortunate and the Levites.
In the New Testament things change after the death and resurection of Jesus. His death on the cross fulfills what is referred to as the ceremonial portion of the Mosaic law. The part of the law that establishes the Levitical priesthood, the temple, the sacrifices, and the tithing system that supported it. That is why after that point there is no more reference to tithing. We are instead instructed to give as the Holy Spirit leads us to. However, that is not an automatic license to give less. In the NT, Jesus raises the bar higher. Under OT law you were guilty of adultery if you actually did the deed, but in Matthew 5 Jesus claims that youre guilty of the same for lusting after the person in your heart. In the same chapter he links the judgement for committing murder with the judgement for simply being angry at someone. What is really happening here is that Jesus is getting to the core of the matter. It's all about what's in the heart.
I could go on, but my pastor and I exchanged a couple lengthy emails on the matter of tithing about three years ago that I think might be very helpful towards understanding the matter. If you're interested, drop me a PM or an email and I will share them with you.