Raising a Generation of Compassionate LOSERSInteresting article decrying the pussification of America... well that's the gist anyway. The article is way better written then my crude summary of the thesis.
IMO it makes some well thought out points about competition. Buried between the lines is the very real notion that we aren't all equal. We don't all have the same physical nor the same mental abilities. Unfortunately some folks just can't comprehend or refuse to acknowledge that fact and thus the pussification of America is inevitable.
After you've read the article go to the web site and read some of the comments..
Your Thoughts?
Raising a Generation of Compassionate Losers
Oh America, What's Happened to You?
By little-whip
Posted Friday, October 27, 2006 on little whip's lair
Discussion: Politics
I saw a commercial the other day that disturbed me, and for the better part of the day I couldn't put my finger on exactly why it bothered me. I think I know now, and I'm going to try to express it here, but let me post a little disclaimer for the dense before I do.
This article is not going to be politically correct. It may hurt the feelings of those of us who have handicapped (or 'differently abled' -as putrid as I find that term) loved ones or who suffer from our own disabilities. That being said, I also want to make clear that I myself am considered disabled due to various health issues I struggle with, and so is my Husband, having been born with a severe deformity of His left hand and arm.
The commercial opens with the voice of a young boy, talking about his anticipation of winning a local soap box derby. For those of you unfamiliar with this term, a soap box derby is a contest in which youngsters build and race their own handmade and engineless 'cars', gravity and ingenuity being the only means of locomotion due to the fact that the race is downhill.
The boy narrating the commercial says something to the effect of "This year, I knew I was going to win, no matter what!" But then he witnesses a child being lifted out of a wheelchair to be placed in his own soap-box car, and the narrator changes his tune, saying.."But then I realized that there were more important things than winning. Including others."
Huh?
Let me ask you this, dear reader, why does anyone enter into any sort of competition if not to win? It's more important to 'include others' than it is to win? If that's true, why don't professional football teams draft the blind? Why don't we have the mentally retarded competing in the Indy 500? Let's face it folks, my one-armed Husband is never going to be a champion Oyster Shucker and my own arthritic ass is never going to be on the Olympic Gymnastics team.
The entire point of competition is to win, to be the best. Otherwise, it's just passtime we are engaging in, not competition.
Now, I can hear you asking yourself, "Why is she making such a big deal about this? It was just a soapbox derby!" In the first place, it's not that I advocate anyone, handicapped or not, being excluded from such competitions. By all means, get in there and participate if you are able, and win if you can! It was the message itself I took issue with, that it's far more important to be NICE than it is to WIN.
I see this self-destructive attitude taking hold in all facets of our society. Businesses are forced to hire and promote not the best candidates, not the most competent, the most able, but (in the name of diversity and niceness) those who 'deserve a chance' for no other reason than the fact that they ARE less able, or have been born to a historically disadvantaged class, ie: females, the handicapped, and minorities.
College admissions are no longer awarded to the brightest, and some institutes of higher learning are even considering the elimination of decent SAT scores as one of their admission criteria. Many elementary schools no longer give letter grades, because those who haven't earned 'A's might have their self-esteem damaged by getting a C or a D or, god forbid, an actual FAILING grade because they haven't learned the material.
We are too busy being nice to worry about being GOOD anymore, good, competent, excellent, outstanding. It's far more important to be nice than it is to win.
We can see the result of this attitude in Iraq now too, and the true cost can be counted in body bags.
America's economy is based on capitalism, and capitalism rewards winners, period. It is important to win, it's important to have the best services, the best product, the brightest idea, for this is what the marketplace rewards regardless of what our increasingly liberal government would have you believe. Honestly, would you purchase a shoddy product over a similarly priced superior one just because the makers of the shoddy product 'included' workers who were less than competant?
When you picked teams in school did you pick the slowest kids first? The ones who could be counted on to drop the ball, miss the shot, lag behind, or otherwise guarantee that your team lost because 'including others' was better than winning? Of course not, and as brutal as it can be (I was one of those non-athletic kids who always got chosen last) it *is* the way of the world. And while it was humiliating, it also spurred me to excel in those areas where I WAS gifted, academics, music, and writing. The jocks had their moment on the field, and I had mine in the classroom.
People are NOT created equal, and our Constitution doesnt make them equal in any respect other than in the eyes of the law, ie: the law is to be applied equally to each individual regardless of the circumstances of their birth.
In a perfect world, everyone would be included in everything, but reality is what it is, folks, and teaching our children that being 'nice' is *the* most important thing, more important than achieving personal excellence, more important than winning (Iraq, anyone?) then we are going to raise an entire generation of super-sensitive, uber compassionate LOSERS.
In closing, I'll remind you that the old adage "It's not whether you win or lose, it's how you play the game" is never uttered by those who have won. If you aren't playing to win, why play at all?