Something I would like my children to feel confident in is that daddy can take care of mommy and everyone else, and is going to turn over every stone until he finds me.
"I'll kill your parents."
"I'd like to see you try scumbag, my dad will have your head on a pike soon enough".
I want to be the scariest person (to others) my kid can imagine so i can't be used against them. My nieces are leaning that way, between their father and I, they don't think there's a tougher man in the world.