It is not the duty of the Iraqi people to be friends of America. America helped many nations that are not friends of America today. There are countries, like France, that have legitimate policy disagreements with America without being members of the Axis of Evil. It's completely possible (and legitimate) that when Iraq's military will be able to stand on its feet the two countries can happily go their separate ways.
If they revert to being homicidal a-holes, instead of at least trying to be a half-decent democracy (something even some African nations have figured out by now), then there's no point in throwing good money after bad.
Ya know, you could at least try to respond to my comment, if you're going to quote me. Or maybe you could point out where I said they had a duty to be our widdwe fwiends. I was actually pointing out that they are worth supporting, even if we don't agree with many things they do.