Can you blame them, when many parents are rightfully afraid that 'beating' their children will get them locked behind bars? Same thing in schools. When children act up, the teachers have no choice but to call the police, since they are not allowed to do anything else to discipline the students.
Pretty much the only reason I would EVER call the police in any situation, it's because taking the situation into my own hands would be illegal.
I think this is often the case.
1) Many "experts" have convinced parents that physical discipline is ALWAYS inappropriate and harmful.
2) Many states have made any physcial disicpline subject to possible prosecution.
As a result, parents are often either unwilling, afraid or, even, unable to discipline their children.
If we don't want parents getting the police involved in family matters (*that are better handled by the parents), perhaps we should stop sending police into family matters (*that are better handled by the parents).
I do not know if it is justified, but many parents are very afraid that someone may call the police and child protective services if this random stranger decides their punishment is too harsh. Having that level of regulation of family decisions will necessarily lead to stupid situations like this.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Type_I_and_type_II_errorsWhile preventing abuse is a noble goal, our society has developed an aversion to Type 2 errors. As a result, we see far too many Type 1 errors, leading to an oversensitivity towards punishment. (i.e. we want to be absolutely sure that abuse is not happening, so we create problems for families where no abuse is happening JUST TO BE SURE no abuse it happening.)