Black
I hope you don't get burnt again, but seriously you should have just cut it off, your going to be back and forth with this girl for the next few years until you finally have enough of being her back up plan.
grrrr
Charby
p.s. I have been down this road with similar situation, trust me I know what I am talking about
Black is by no means trying to get back with her. if she wants to be friends again that is fine by me. if not i know that she knows i am sorry and i am fine at letting it stand there. i just felt i needed to apologize for what i had done. when i know i did something wrong i will be the first to admit it. this situation it just took me awhile to figure out that i was wrong.
as for the other girls surprisingly enough i am doing very well with that right now. so i think i am going to be ok. as a matter of fact i know i will be.