I guess that's the meaning of 'different strokes for different folks.'
I'm from central Alabama. Growing up (in the 1950s), my family took a week's vacation at Orange Beach (Gulf of Mexico) every summer. When I was old enough (8? 9?) my dad started taking me out with him to go fishing on the charter boats that ran out into the Gulf. I don't even remember my first encounter with salt water, I was too little to remember it. I thought no more of playing in what passe for surf in the Gulf than playing in the swimmin' hole in the creek at home.
I've always loved it. I still do. When I was a teenager, it was The Hangout, an open pavillion on the beach at Gulf Shores. I never got to the stage where I frequented the Florabama, a legendary beach bar that straddles the state line that wasn't far away. After I moved to NC and discovered the Atlantic, I took up surfing and real deep- sea fishing. Unfortunately a seizure disorder put a stop to both those activities, there's no percentage in going unconscious in the ocean. And though it's been a while since I have had a seizure, I still haven't gotten back an a board and my time on the deck of a boat has been scant as well.
One of my favorite beach vacations was in the summer of 1990. I was asked to accompany a lady friend, her daughter, two other women and one boy on a trip to Portsmouth Island, an uninhabited island that is part of the Cape Lookout National Seashore in NC (
http://www.portsmouth-island.com/ ). The island is 20-something miles long and it takes a 4X4 to get around on it. I had one at the time, so my truck and I got invited along. The womenfolks had a cabin on the dune (no electricity, no potable water), the menfolks pitched a tent on the beach. I think I impressed the kids that first morning on the beach, when I told them that there was nothing between them and Portugal except miles and miles of ocean, and they really needed to be careful and not play in the water without adults watching them. We managed to get them home without losing either of them. It was a great trip, especially seeing the old Life Saving Station, predecessors to the Coast Guard:
http://www.nps.gov/archive/calo/pv.htmsnip=
Glimpses of Portsmouth:The United States Life Saving Station was a leading influence in the community from the late 1890's until its closure in 1937. The crews were often made up from local citizens. Life was disciplined, drills harsh, and respect in the community was widespread. From the watchtower, a nightly guard scanned the waters for vessels in trouble. Foot patrols walked the dark, stormy ocean beaches. Behind the large doors of the boathouse, oar powered surfboats waited, ready to be sent down the ramp and out to sea at a moment's notice.=snip
I have seen the Atlantic when it was feeling its oats in the teeth of a hurricane, I have a giant amount of admiration for men who had the strength and courage to take small boats out into a storm's fury in order to try and help vessels in distress. For more see
http://www.uslife-savingservice.org/ ,
http://www.uscg.mil/history/h_USLSS.html etc. Old salts along the coast talked of the heroism of these men in respectful tones, and it takes a lot to get respect from crusty old crabs along the oceanfront. I never knew any of these men, but I have seen what they faced. They must have clanked when they walked.
I don't have anything negative to say about people who don't care for the beach or the ocean. As my friends and I used to say while heading out 30 or 40 miles into the Atlantic out of Shallotte for a day of fishing, "Thank God for golf courses, otherwise there would be three times as many boats out here."
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