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Title: Scout going into hospice
Post by: Scout26 on November 12, 2019, 03:47:04 PM
After 12 years of battling cancer and kidney failure, too many other things have started going wrong. I continue to build up fluid in my abdomen, even with medication my blood pressure stays in the toilet and my stomach and intestines are in constant pain preventing me from eating. I have no fight left in me. I am going to home hospice care. Robert will keep you updated.
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Post by: charby on November 12, 2019, 03:50:49 PM
I'm at a loss for words, I'm hoping for a miracle.
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Post by: WLJ on November 12, 2019, 04:06:51 PM
I'm at a loss for words, I'm hoping for a miracle.

I 2nd this
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Post by: makattak on November 12, 2019, 04:08:45 PM
So sorry, Scout. That just sucks. We'll be praying for you and your family.
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Post by: MechAg94 on November 12, 2019, 04:09:00 PM
My prayers are with you Scout.
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Post by: 230RN on November 12, 2019, 04:12:25 PM
Very sorry to hear this.  I second the miracle hopes.

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Post by: Ben on November 12, 2019, 04:12:40 PM
I also don't know what to say, other than "hope". My thoughts and prayers are with you Dave.
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Post by: Fly320s on November 12, 2019, 04:12:48 PM
Damn, Scout.

I'm sorry to hear that.  I hope you have one more trick up your sleeve.  If you don't, please know that you've made APS and the world a great place to be.
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Post by: fifth_column on November 12, 2019, 04:13:37 PM
I have no words.  You're one of the bravest men I know.
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Post by: Ben on November 12, 2019, 04:19:11 PM
 If you don't, please know that you've made APS and the world a great place to be.

Indeed.  I consider myself fortunate to have made Dave's acquaintance in not just APS, but the real world as well.
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Post by: charby on November 12, 2019, 04:24:02 PM
I consider myself fortunate to have made Dave's acquaintance in not just APS, but the real world as well.

Same
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Post by: cordex on November 12, 2019, 04:29:32 PM
Indeed.  I consider myself fortunate to have made Dave's acquaintance in not just APS, but the real world as well.
Me too.

Dave, if you're up to a visitor at some point and I can swing the trip I'd love to stop by.
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Post by: French G. on November 12, 2019, 04:47:08 PM
I am very happy to have met you, the wit and strength you faced a fight against fantastic odds certainly helped me with rough times of my own.
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Post by: Hawkmoon on November 12, 2019, 05:11:53 PM
* * *

Don't know what to say.
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Post by: RocketMan on November 12, 2019, 05:50:55 PM
So very sorry to hear this, Dave.  I very much hope and pray for a miracle.
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Post by: Brad Johnson on November 12, 2019, 05:55:19 PM
We're here for you, Buddy, even if it's just a sympathetic ear (keyboard?). We'll keep the prayers coming and our fingers crossed for the aforementioned Miracle. In the meantime, you've done all you can. Let those folks keep you comfortable and don't hesitate to give 'em the famous Scout stinkeye every now and again.

Brad
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Post by: lupinus on November 12, 2019, 06:03:39 PM
Here if you need anything buddy

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Post by: Andiron on November 12, 2019, 06:06:15 PM
No words.  You're in our prayers.

Fair winds and following seas, Sir.
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Post by: lee n. field on November 12, 2019, 06:13:29 PM
Indeed, no words.
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Post by: ConstitutionCowboy on November 12, 2019, 06:26:54 PM
Prayers sent for you and yours.

Woody
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Post by: AJ Dual on November 12, 2019, 06:32:28 PM
Dammit...
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Post by: T.O.M. on November 12, 2019, 06:58:56 PM
Dammit...

What he said.

Dave, I'm not a lawyer in your part of the world, but I can offer general advice if needed.  PM any questions.
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Post by: TechMan on November 12, 2019, 07:01:07 PM
I am speechless.  My prayers to you and your family.
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Post by: BlueStarLizzard on November 12, 2019, 07:17:09 PM
I will miss you.
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Post by: MillCreek on November 12, 2019, 07:50:02 PM
Stay strong. Remember that you can go on and off hospice as many times as need be.  It is not unknown that after a while on hospice and are feeling better, patients decide to go off hospice and resume treatment.  Also be aware that palliative care is also an option to hospice.  PM me if you have any questions.
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Post by: TommyGunn on November 12, 2019, 07:53:13 PM
Add my prayers to the bunch!! 
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Post by: Angel Eyes on November 12, 2019, 09:40:46 PM
Sorry to hear that, Scout.
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Post by: HankB on November 12, 2019, 09:45:35 PM
Prayers sent.
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Post by: sumpnz on November 12, 2019, 09:49:03 PM
We all love you and will miss you.

His son is going to register for the board soon if not already.  They were discussing Scout26jr for a handle. I'm sure the mods will make sure he gets the proper welcome and access.
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Post by: kgbsquirrel on November 12, 2019, 10:00:03 PM
Just, thank you.  For everything, and anything forgotten, thank you Scout.
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Post by: dogmush on November 12, 2019, 10:41:07 PM
I posted on your thread on FB as well, but thanks again for sharing with us, and helping build this madcap place.
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Post by: Unisaw on November 12, 2019, 11:33:00 PM
Damn, I'm really sorry to hear this.  I hope you find peace and comfort in hospice care.  Like others, I'm hoping for a miracle.
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Post by: HeroHog on November 13, 2019, 12:37:37 AM
I will continue to pray for you, I just don't know what else to say but, thanks, I'm glad to have gotten to know you.
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Post by: grampster on November 13, 2019, 08:39:51 AM
Dave, your determinarion has been an inspiration.  Peace, brother. 
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Post by: zxcvbob on November 13, 2019, 08:50:42 AM
Well, *expletive deleted*it.  :'(

The miracle already happened; the past 10 years have been a miracle, and it's allowed David to guide Robert into the fine young man he is instead of whatever his ex would have turned him into.  Scout, if you're reading this, you should be proud of what you've accomplished.  I hope your last days are comfortable and peaceful, and I'm proud to have known you.  (I'm crying now, dammit)
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Post by: brimic on November 13, 2019, 09:53:45 AM
I really am bad at finding words for these things...
You've been badly missed over here.
I'll pray for you.
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Post by: K Frame on November 13, 2019, 09:58:16 AM
Very sorry to hear about this. Much peace.
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Post by: Perd Hapley on November 13, 2019, 01:25:07 PM
Scout, I hope you're able to enjoy the time you have left. Be praying for you.
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Post by: Jocassee on November 13, 2019, 02:44:31 PM
Well, *expletive deleted*it.  :'(

The miracle already happened; the past 10 years have been a miracle, and it's allowed David to guide Robert into the fine young man he is instead of whatever his ex would have turned him into.  Scout, if you're reading this, you should be proud of what you've accomplished.  I hope your last days are comfortable and peaceful, and I'm proud to have known you.  (I'm crying now, dammit)

All of this.
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Post by: Fitz on November 13, 2019, 02:51:43 PM
i havent been here for a while... came back for this.

I'm so sorry and sad Scout. God be with you.
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Post by: sumpnz on November 13, 2019, 07:23:06 PM
Talked to David just now.  He had a few moments of coherence but but mostly he was pretty out of it.  He said to give his love to you all.  Keep praying for him.
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Post by: Boomhauer on November 13, 2019, 09:23:54 PM
Damn. I just texted him but didn’t call because I figured they were keeping him pretty doped up. *expletive deleted*it, just a few days ago we were hoping he was going to be out of the hospital in a couple weeks. He’s a hell of a good man who got dealt a crap hand especially lately

Gonna miss you Scout

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Post by: Lennyjoe on November 13, 2019, 10:25:41 PM
Been away from here for a while and seen his post on FB.  Prayers to him and his family. 
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Post by: lee n. field on November 14, 2019, 01:08:28 PM
Talked to David just now.  He had a few moments of coherence but but mostly he was pretty out of it.  He said to give his love to you all.  Keep praying for him.

Gave him a buzz just now.  Yeah, not really coherent, pretty much out of it.

Not seeing a proper "Bummer" emoticon.
 
:'(
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Post by: wmenorr67 on November 14, 2019, 03:30:42 PM
Been away for awhile as well but was keeping up on Facebook.

He is one of the good ones.
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Post by: Kingcreek on November 15, 2019, 10:36:40 AM
Peace Brother Dave.
Hospice is a wonderful program when other options are limited.
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Post by: Viking on November 16, 2019, 11:22:40 AM
Worst possible news, Scout.
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Post by: sumpnz on November 16, 2019, 11:37:22 AM
I asked Robert if his dad was up for a phone call. 

His response:
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Unfortunately not he isnt waking up much anymore and he hasn't been talking
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Post by: MillCreek on November 16, 2019, 01:18:51 PM
At this point, he is likely getting regular doses of liquid morphine via dropper into his mouth to keep him comfortable.  He may not be conscious enough to interact with anyone.
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Post by: Ben on November 16, 2019, 01:20:54 PM
I have a feeling this weekend is going to be sad.  =(
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Post by: Hawkmoon on November 16, 2019, 01:55:51 PM
This has to be incredibly tough for Robert.
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Post by: zxcvbob on November 16, 2019, 02:04:17 PM
This has to be incredibly tough for Robert.

Final lesson from his dad on being a man.  I'm really sorry they are having to go through this.