Does your spouse "save complaints," and then unload?

[BobR]

Do they teach that at the same school that offers graduate degrees in herding cats?

You can't learn that in school. It is all on the job training.

http://video.google.com/videoplay?docid=-8215789355288508566

My wife and I try to talk when things happen, then they go away. Holding stuff in is very bad for your health.

bob