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« on: September 25, 2005, 07:01:05 PM »
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Whimpering About Poverty

Maybe You Should Try The Real Thing

 

Septmber 25, 2005

Repeatedly I hear that the misbehavior in New Orleans sprang from the exigencies of poverty. I would offer a countering view. Permit me to start with the family of Violeta, mi pareja in Mexico. I know them well. Listen, and judge.

Her father was born poor 78 years ago. Poor in Mexico in the twenties meant poor--dirt-floor poor, village well with typhoid and no sewerage poor, no safety net, no medical care, and government by caciques who had unlimited power and didnt care whether you lived or died. It was hookworm, roundworm, pinworm, tapeworm poor. It was louse poor. Obesity from eating at McDonalds was not a concern. Just eating was a concern.

Her Dad learned to read from an aunt who had learned in a Catholic school. In Mexico then, as in the United States now, the Catholic schools were better than the public, when the latter existed. He then apprenticed himself to a primitive machine shop, the only kind available, and became a valve-maker.

Eventually he hired on with a company, saved hard over the years, and bought a house, now paid off, in which he still lives. Buying a house for a Mexican worker then required grim determination. After thirty-six years he retired with a pension adequate to support life. In all this time, he did not sack a single city.

Poor doesnt mean ignorant. He read whatever he could find, to include newspapers daily. He knows a lot of history and geography. If you mention, say, Ceylon, he knows where it is, and the capital. Do American college graduates?

He wasnt shiftless, you see. Poverty is a condition characterized by a lack of money. Shiftlessness involves a lack of backbone, morals, independence, self-respect, and drive. They are not the same thing. Of course, if you are shiftless, you are likely to be poor.

I note in passing that anyone who wishes can learn to read, short of the genuinely retarded. Illiteracy is a choice. So is ignorance.

Along the way he married, whence Violeta. He was an imperfect dadstrict, yelled a lot, and wasnt too tolerant, though he didnt hit her. He taught her that there are things you have to do, things you ought to do, and things you ought not to do. She learned. A thoroughgoing Catholicism reinforced these ideas.

Adolescence came, and high school. Violeta decided that she wanted to go to the University of Guadalajara. There was the little problem of no money. Mexicans do not get preferential treatment in Mexico. To her, poverty was an obstacle to be overcome, not an excuse for failure. For five years in the Facultad de Letras y Filosofia, she worked three jobs. And graduated.

Poor, you see, is not the same as, nor does it imply, nor justify, passive, thieving, dependent, and benighted.

At this point I am going to sacrifice literary consistency to explication. When I was nineteen a buddy of mine and I hopped the freights to New York where, listening to a Copland concert in Prospect Park, I met a little Italian girl of seventeen on the grass. We began writing, and then dating. Her father having died unexpectedly, she and her mother were living essentially on Social Security in Brooklyn. They ate, but not much more.

They were not shiftless, however.

Her mother got her into a Catholic schoolBishop OConnell if memory serves. Eva understood perfectly which way was up. Good grades were not optional. They were going to happen. And did. Four years of high school and a 4.0 later, she blew away the Regents and got a scholarship to NYU Washington Square. She repeated the roughly 4.0 performance. After grad school at Rochester, she is a tenured professor of mathematics in the New York system. Poor Italian kid. Never burned a city.

Anyway, Violeta. While in university, she became pregnant. Contraception is an imperfect art. On moral grounds she decided not to kill it. (Actually it wasnt a decision. There are things one doesnt do and, in her view, that was one of them. Today The Unkilled is fourteen and prospering mightily.) Violeta was now a single mother as well as working three jobs and going to school.

She did it. It wasnt easy, but she had no expectation that it would be. There are things one does.

On graduating she got some wretched office job, discovered that it was a snake pit (un nido de serpientes) and that she couldnt give enough attention to her child, who turned out to be a girl named Natalia. So she said to hell with offices and moved to Ajijic, the American enclave on Lake Chapala, to teach Spanish to gringos.

It was a gutsy call. She had no safety net and very little money: North Americans living in half-million dollar houses object to paying an extra dollar an hour for a service that would cost ten times as much in the US. When I met Violeta, Natalia was twelve. They were living in, by American standards, a desperately tiny one-bedroom house, with one small bed and a mattress on the floor, and a total of $300 between them and destitution. Dont tell her about the high price of running shoes.

Now in the US, social class, which we pretend doesnt exist, depends chiefly on consumer goods owned, money coming in, and credentials on paper. Two BMWs and Yale beats three Volvos and the University of Maryland. Violeta, ever wrong-headed, believed that what you are worth depends on how you behave. Again, Caholicism.

She conveyed this to Natalia, who was (and is) the best student in her school, reading constantly with the fluency of an educated adult. Principled motherhood has its virtues. If the child had been a latchkey, she would doubtless now be pushing either drugs or a stroller. Today Nata is fourteen, smart as a whip, largely over the tyrannosaur stage of hideous disagreeability that briefly afflicts teenage girls, and pretty as a flower. She very much likes boys, but has none of that unhappywhat? Lack of self-respect? Desperation for love?that makes so many US girls easy prey to libidinous striplings.

If I may digress again, long ago on the police beat I rode in DC with a black cop from a bad section of New York. How did he get out, I asked? From my column of the time, I quote: My father told me, Son, youre going to learn your lessons, or I will whup your ass. He did, too. So I learned. Best thing that ever happened to me. (Boys are a little different.)

You dont have to be helpless, nor useless, nor immoral because you were born poor. If this were not true, the Irish, Italians, Jews, the Chinese of railroad coolie days, the Poles and the Czechs would still be in slums. They arent. They made it, as Violeta made it, as Eva and lots of black cops made it, without Section Eight housing, welfare, scholarships, minority preferences with no expectations attached, medical charity, or monotonous self-pity. She has a contempt for those who could, but dont, that would peel chrome from an engine block.
D. R. ZINN

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« Reply #1 on: September 26, 2005, 03:11:06 AM »
"I note in passing that anyone who wishes can learn to read, short of the genuinely retarded. Illiteracy is a choice. So is ignorance."

Trouble is, in Modern PC Amerika, if you say this out loud, it means you Hate The Poor and you are Racist.  I don't see how the PC crowd transmutes fact into fancy, but it's unending.

Fred is always a good read.

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« Reply #2 on: September 26, 2005, 04:23:30 AM »
Any real left winger would experience a degree of apoplexia that well might bring on their death after reading that.

HEY! There's a thought... Post it on DU - those poor souls will drop like flies. OR - more than likely - just close their eyes.
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« Reply #3 on: September 26, 2005, 05:52:36 AM »
I'm a left winger, and I agreed with everything but this part:

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While in university, she became pregnant. Contraception is an imperfect art. On moral grounds she decided not to kill it. (Actually it wasnt a decision. There are things one doesnt do and, in her view, that was one of them. Today The Unkilled is fourteen and prospering mightily.)
For a Catholic, contraception and premarital sex should be "things one doesn't do" also.  I don't understand how people can be so proud of upholding one rule while the two they broke are what put them in that situation in the first place.

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« Reply #4 on: September 26, 2005, 06:15:03 AM »
Vodka7, I don't think it's a question of being "proud" of observing one rule while violating others.  We're human beings, with all of the faults and failings of our humanity, in addition to the good stuff.  I'm a sinner too, and the fact that I commit sin doesn't make me proud of it:  I strive to avoid it, but guess what?  I'm human, and I goof now and again.  She goofed too, and decided to accept the consequences of her actions, rather than try to avoid them by disposing of the consequences.  Good for her!
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« Reply #5 on: September 26, 2005, 07:21:34 AM »
Great post, including Preacherman's response.  I'm forwarding this to many people.
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« Reply #6 on: September 26, 2005, 10:20:04 AM »
Never heard of Fred before today. But I think I like the man.

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« Reply #7 on: September 26, 2005, 06:03:09 PM »
I think it might not be a bad idea to distinguish between financial poverty, on the one hand, and moral and intellectual poverty, on the other.
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« Reply #8 on: September 26, 2005, 06:30:58 PM »
I like Fred.  He can get away with saying things most of us wouldn't get away with.  He's worth reading for that reason alone, regardless of whether you agree with him.