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Title: When you are cooking for only yourself...
Post by: Ned Hamford on February 19, 2013, 07:22:38 PM
is the meal better as you are able to cater to yourself alone, and who knows you better than that, or worse as why would you put in the effort for a single person and a single meal, especially when its just little ol you?

My own standards plummet dramatically when its bachelor chow time. 

How about you folks?

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Title: Re: When you are cooking for only yourself...
Post by: wuluf on February 19, 2013, 07:27:57 PM
Cereal.  It's what's for dinner....
Title: Re: When you are cooking for only yourself...
Post by: Boomhauer on February 19, 2013, 07:28:02 PM
I hate cooking just for myself
Title: Re: When you are cooking for only yourself...
Post by: Hawkmoon on February 19, 2013, 07:32:15 PM
I don't especially enjoy cooking for myself, but when my wife is traveling I eat a whole lot healthier because I can cook only what's good for me, and only as much as I need.
Title: Re: When you are cooking for only yourself...
Post by: bedlamite on February 19, 2013, 07:56:06 PM
I usually make enough that I'm not interested in leftovers after a couple days.
Title: Re: When you are cooking for only yourself...
Post by: Bigjake on February 19, 2013, 08:00:48 PM
Usually below the par of what I'd cook for "us".  I take pride in making tasty food the wife enjoys. 

Just me?  ( SWMBO's gone for the week to visit her sister?)  I'll either cook easy brainless food or stuff she's not into that I wouldn't otherwise bother cooking for just me.
Title: Re: When you are cooking for only yourself...
Post by: dogmush on February 19, 2013, 08:03:59 PM
Yeah, i don't put any effort into it just for me.

Unless i'm doing something special like a hunters sammich or scotch eggs
Title: Re: When you are cooking for only yourself...
Post by: ArfinGreebly on February 19, 2013, 08:12:38 PM

There are a number of things that I like which the spouse creature does not.

Consequently, when I'm on my own (which is not often), I will indulge some of my personal tastes.

Some of these indulgences include . . .


When we did our two-stage move in 2007, I spent 3.5 months on my own.

I got to experiment with all kinds of things.

I ate very well, yet very economically.

And I never had pizza .  Not even once.
Title: Re: When you are cooking for only yourself...
Post by: BlueStarLizzard on February 19, 2013, 08:19:31 PM
Solution: don't actually cook.

I'm pretty big on microwave dinners, hotpockets and other forms of prepackaged single servings that require no more prep then take out of box, put in microwave and push buttons.
Unfortunatly, that's 'spensive. So I try to do more large batches of stuff and freeze leftovers.

I used to cook meals for me and Dad, but now our schedules are both so wacky, we never eat at the same time.

As for acceptable meals... do potato chips and dip count?
Title: Re: When you are cooking for only yourself...
Post by: BlueStarLizzard on February 19, 2013, 08:21:27 PM
There are a number of things that I like which the spouse creature does not.

Consequently, when I'm on my own (which is not often), I will indulge some of my personal tastes.

Some of these indulgences include . . .
  • a large and widely varied veggie platter (she's not a fan of certain veggies, e.g. squash)
  • certain salads (again, our veggie tastes are different)
  • certain cuts of meat pan-fried rare, often done in sizzling bacon fat (she doesn't care for pan-fried)
  • various soups (she's uber-picky on soups, doesn't like barley, stuff like that)
  • thin-sliced pre-baked potatoes crisped in bacon fat (actually, she likes those)
  • yogurt blends (she hates yogurt)  
  • certain cheeses (our tastes overlap, but it's not an identity set)
  • home-made muesli (which she detests) made with random grains, fruits, and nuts . . . noms
  • baked-in-butter veggies (that veggie thing again)
  • anything that might include spam   =D  
  • large platter of sautéed mushrooms


When we did our two-stage move in 2007, I spent 3.5 months on my own.

I got to experiment with all kinds of things.

I ate very well, yet very economically.

And I never had pizza .  Not even once.

Your wife is wise.

(thanks AG =) )
Title: Re: When you are cooking for only yourself...
Post by: T.O.M. on February 19, 2013, 08:39:44 PM
On those rare occassions when I'mm cooking solo, I tend to stick with the grill.  Steak, fish, etc right off the grill, with salad.  Simple and easy, with fewer dishes to wash.
Title: Re: When you are cooking for only yourself...
Post by: lupinus on February 19, 2013, 08:44:44 PM
Both, depending entirely how far the laziness meter has pegged.

When it comes to food, I come from a mostly Italian and German background. Some flavors and dishes, to those who weren't raised on the stuff, can be a bit...off putting. And then there are some ingredients I am fond of, like peppers fennel artichokes and wursts, that my wife very much dislikes. So these things I reserve for bachelor nights when she's visiting her sister. Some are dead simple, some a bit more elaborate, either way they're things she hates so I reserve them for me time.

Other times, I'm just lazy and toss things together that she'd never consider a "meal". Sometimes things get the double whammy of lazy/poor/busy Italian and she REALLY wouldn't eat.
Title: Re: When you are cooking for only yourself...
Post by: ArfinGreebly on February 19, 2013, 08:45:57 PM

(why can't I get the bold to turn off where I want it to?)


If you're going to bold a portion of a bullet list, start the bold after the bullet markup.

Like this:


See?
Title: Re: When you are cooking for only yourself...
Post by: Azrael256 on February 19, 2013, 08:48:45 PM
I watch an episode of Nigella Lawson's show for ideas.

Then I order pizza and watch a couple more.  =D

But seriously.  I usually grill up a steak.  Get the grill screamin' hot and cook it Chicago style.  
Title: Re: When you are cooking for only yourself...
Post by: Bigjake on February 19, 2013, 09:04:04 PM
Both, depending entirely how far the laziness meter has pegged.

When it comes to food, I come from a mostly Italian and German background. Some flavors and dishes, to those who weren't raised on the stuff, can be a bit...off putting. And then there are some ingredients I am fond of, like peppers fennel artichokes and wursts, that my wife very much dislikes. So these things I reserve for bachelor nights when she's visiting her sister. Some are dead simple, some a bit more elaborate, either way they're things she hates so I reserve them for me time.


QFT.   Well said.
Title: Re: When you are cooking for only yourself...
Post by: Lee on February 19, 2013, 09:58:46 PM
Funny that you should ask. USPS just delivered my new pressure cooker today. I'm cooking a beef roast conncoction as I type...and drinking a Bohemia or two. My wife and kids will probably sample it tomorrow, but not really dig in. If I want to eat real food, I cook it just for me. Given a choice, they would live on cold cereal fruit and yogurt- not me.
Title: Re: When you are cooking for only yourself...
Post by: Scout26 on February 19, 2013, 09:59:20 PM
I prefer to cook for more than just me.  On the nights Robert's here with me we eat well as he's not a picky eater and I enjoy making a well balanced meal.  Generally , a meat, a starch, a vegetable (or two) and fruit for desert.   Mostly fresh made.

On the nights I'm here by my self, think "Nuked Burritos".
Title: Re: When you are cooking for only yourself...
Post by: Ron on February 20, 2013, 09:23:17 AM
Chili, pasta with homemade sauce, lasagna from scratch, roast a chicken, make a chicken pot pie from leftovers, pork chops, various chicken breast recipes, frozen pizza, homemade pizza, pizza delivered, bread with olive oil, Parmesan cheese and a bottle of wine, etc.

As a single guy if I don't cook I don't eat. If you look above most of what is mentioned also keeps well as leftovers, crucial for me. Eating in restaurants and fast food is too expensive. Truth be told what I cook is usually better than most restaurant meals anyway.   
Title: Re: When you are cooking for only yourself...
Post by: Jamisjockey on February 20, 2013, 09:59:46 AM
Steak.  Or fish. 
Title: Re: When you are cooking for only yourself...
Post by: Monkeyleg on February 20, 2013, 10:26:14 AM
I just go with frozen or packaged food. It's actually better nutritionally then when my ex cooked, as she'd make stuff that was good, but was through the roof in cholesterol and calories.

I'm a good cook, but I'd rather do something else than stand in front of the range for a couple of hours.
Title: Re: Re: Re: When you are cooking for only yourself...
Post by: lupinus on February 20, 2013, 04:03:06 PM

I'm a good cook, but I'd rather do something else than stand in front of the range for a couple of hours.

Depends on my mood.

Sometimes I'm like that. Other times I'm fine with work in front of the stove, I enjoy it.

I don't know many other people that make themselves home made pasta, roladen and spatzle, etc.
Title: Re: Re: When you are cooking for only yourself...
Post by: cosine on February 20, 2013, 04:48:06 PM
When it's just me I usually just rummage through the fridge/cupboard for anything that can be thrown together in five minutes or less.
Title: Re: When you are cooking for only yourself...
Post by: cambeul41 on February 20, 2013, 06:14:22 PM
I like cooking for my wife and will eat almost anything, so when she is home I let her decide what is for supper. ["Dinner"is necessarily a major meal  =D.]  Last night it was Japanese spaghetti with sea urchin sauce sprinkled with sea weed.

When she is away on business, mostly Korea and Japan where she gets to eat all kind of goodies, I cook large quantities of a few things that she is less than keen on: potato salad (I like my own better than any I have had away from home) served with whatever kind of sausage is in the house and sausage gravy served on potatoes or rice. My wife claims she does not object to sausage gravy, but is never quite in the mood for it.. Not once in 21 years.

If I am not up to that much effort, I make sandwiches, hotdogs and beans, or heat up some frozen buffalo wings.

My one food prejudice (and at this time of my life it is just stubbornness) is that I do not eat cold commercial cerial. The last bowlful I had was in June 1955. It was Cheerios.
Title: Re: When you are cooking for only yourself...
Post by: MrsSmith on February 20, 2013, 08:20:18 PM
Depends on mood and time. Tonight I had cookies and milk (because I'm a grown-up and I can), last night I had bacon and a glass of chocolate milk. The night before that, I made chili relenos, rice, and guacamole salad.

I'm more likely to cook a real meal on the weekends when I can start it earlier and finish earlier. Weekdays are more likely to be quick and easy with the least amount of clean-up possible. I've also tried spending a couple hours on Sundays cooking up 2 or 3 meals and packaging them to eat over the course of the week, but that doesn't happen as often as it should.

If I get in the mood for something really elaborate, I'll invite friends over and cook for them.
Title: Re: When you are cooking for only yourself...
Post by: Boomhauer on February 20, 2013, 09:17:25 PM


I'm more likely to cook a real meal on the weekends when I can start it earlier and finish earlier. Weekdays are more likely to be quick and easy with the least amount of clean-up possible.

Same here. On the days I work, especially when Im also in class I go for least fuss and muss. Gas grills are a godsend on such nights...preheat while quickly prepping the meat and throw it on...
Title: Re: When you are cooking for only yourself...
Post by: Monkeyleg on February 20, 2013, 10:25:43 PM
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Depends on mood and time. Tonight I had cookies and milk (because I'm a grown-up and I can), last night I had bacon and a glass of chocolate milk. The night before that, I made chili relenos, rice, and guacamole salad.

That's hilarious! I don't know why, but it just is.
Title: Re: When you are cooking for only yourself...
Post by: zxcvbob on February 21, 2013, 12:09:30 AM
Wife almost never eats what I cook, and kid is in college.  So if I cook it, it's just me and the dogs gonna eat it.  I *like* to cook, but usually save that for the weekend when I have more time.  During the week, it's likely to just be a tortilla with cheese and or canned refried beans.  Or steam some broccoli crowns.  Or every once it a while a pizza if I mix the dough the night before.  In any case, it needs to be ready to eat in about 15 minutes.  (yes, homemade pizza is that fast)

Weekends I'll make casseroles, or 3 or 4 quart pots of soup or chili, or a roast... or just about anything else.  A pot of soup lasts me for several days; I take it to work for lunches.  After eating lasagna for a couple of days, I cut the rest into single servings and freeze it for later.
Title: Re: When you are cooking for only yourself...
Post by: AJ Dual on February 21, 2013, 01:10:40 AM
Lazy cooking?  If it's carb-restricted, I'll toss some ground turkey in the saute pan until it's browned. Add a little sesame oil, a few tbsp of lemon juice, cumin, chili, salt, pepper, garlic and some roast peanuts, and a tablespoon of unsweetened natural peanut butter.

Kind of tastes like an ersatz Thai dish.
Title: Re: When you are cooking for only yourself...
Post by: Monkeyleg on February 21, 2013, 02:02:57 AM
For about a year, I made home made pizza every Saturday night. I made a croissant dough, which meant starting the crust on Thursday night. Come Saturday night it would take me about an hour to put things together, but it was really, really good. I had to get a lot of the fixin's at an Italian grocery store on the east side of Milwaukee, which added another 45 minutes or so to the project.
Title: Re: When you are cooking for only yourself...
Post by: MrsSmith on February 21, 2013, 07:20:02 AM
Glad I could make you smile Monkeyleg!

I LOVE home made pizza. In fact, I can't even recall the last time I ordered pizza, because it's never as good as mine. (There was a small local chain in STL called Elicia's Pizza that was pretty good, but Fistful or Bogie would have to fill me in on how they rate these days.) I haven't made one in ages and will have to put the ingredients on the grocery list. And perfect for my life these days, I can have dinner the night I make it, and lunches to take to work several days after.

Never considered croissant dough for the crust, that sounds exceedingly yummy - thanks for the idea!
Title: Re: When you are cooking for only yourself...
Post by: Monkeyleg on February 21, 2013, 11:23:51 AM
Mrs. Smith, I got the idea for croissant dough from a pizza shop in a tiny town in Iowa. They had a Hawaiian pizza, which was terrible. But the crust was a flaky croissant style.

You start by rolling out your dough, spreading lard over it, then folding it several times before putting it in the freezer. The next night you take it out, thaw, press it out again, spread lard, then fold it several times and freeze.

I made the tomato sauce from scratch using a certain type of Italian tomatoes (forget the name) that are really sweet and delicious. I'd saute the mushrooms, and use mozzarella cheese that I'd aged myself. I'd use prosciutto, pepperoni and another meat (I'd change the third from one week to the next).

I'd start the crust first until it had risen, then brush the top with whipped egg white and broil it. This put a glaze over the top that kept the sauce and other juices from seeping into the crust and ruining the croissant flakiness.

I think I was a little obsessive. ;)
Title: Re: When you are cooking for only yourself...
Post by: zxcvbob on February 21, 2013, 11:58:51 AM
Another thing that I make sometimes is stirfried... whatever.  Usually start with a *little* bit of sausage, or sometimes just a squirt of oil.  A whole chopped onion, frozen french-cut green beans, some chopped peppers if I have 'em, garlic, and something cabbagey.  When the vegetables are done, add some Sriracha and cook that, a handful of peanuts, red pepper flakes, and either leftover brown rice or soaked cellophane noodles.  This goes together really fast.
Title: Re: When you are cooking for only yourself...
Post by: MrsSmith on February 21, 2013, 06:54:48 PM
Mrs. Smith, I got the idea for croissant dough from a pizza shop in a tiny town in Iowa. They had a Hawaiian pizza, which was terrible. But the crust was a flaky croissant style.

You start by rolling out your dough, spreading lard over it, then folding it several times before putting it in the freezer. The next night you take it out, thaw, press it out again, spread lard, then fold it several times and freeze.

I made the tomato sauce from scratch using a certain type of Italian tomatoes (forget the name) that are really sweet and delicious. I'd saute the mushrooms, and use mozzarella cheese that I'd aged myself. I'd use prosciutto, pepperoni and another meat (I'd change the third from one week to the next).

I'd start the crust first until it had risen, then brush the top with whipped egg white and broil it. This put a glaze over the top that kept the sauce and other juices from seeping into the crust and ruining the croissant flakiness.

I think I was a little obsessive. ;)

Yes, but since I've never used a recipe without altering it, I would alter this one by using Pillsbury Crescent dough. :D   

You just cringed, didn't you?
Title: Re: When you are cooking for only yourself...
Post by: Neemi on February 21, 2013, 07:42:51 PM
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You just cringed, didn't you?

Sure did.

I don't cook for just myself very often unless the kids convince me that gold fish crackers are a meal.  :angel:

That crescent roll dough - wrap it around hot dogs, cook it, and it's a fun variation to hot dogs.
Title: Re: When you are cooking for only yourself...
Post by: Monkeyleg on February 21, 2013, 10:30:23 PM
Mrs. Smith is walking, talking proof of the age-old verdict that men are better cooks. ;)
Title: Re: When you are cooking for only yourself...
Post by: MrsSmith on February 22, 2013, 07:11:51 AM
I do my very best to help perpetuate that theory. Food is sometimes more enjoyable when prepared by someone else.  =D
Title: Re: When you are cooking for only yourself...
Post by: 280plus on February 22, 2013, 09:30:50 AM
I do my very best to help perpetuate that theory. Food is sometimes more enjoyable when prepared by someone else.  =D
Seems similar to the idea that I just don't do a good enough job on the lawn. ;)
Title: Re: When you are cooking for only yourself...
Post by: Monkeyleg on February 22, 2013, 10:57:42 AM
You're supposed to cut the grass, not eat it.
Title: Re: When you are cooking for only yourself...
Post by: Brad Johnson on February 22, 2013, 11:14:50 AM
Can of SPAM.
Jar of mayonnaise.
Tube of crackers.

Brad
Title: Re: When you are cooking for only yourself...
Post by: 280plus on February 22, 2013, 04:46:56 PM
You're supposed to cut the grass, not eat it.
Whatever it takes... ;)
Title: Re: When you are cooking for only yourself...
Post by: MrsSmith on February 22, 2013, 08:28:49 PM
Seems similar to the idea that I just don't do a good enough job on the lawn. ;)

I've heard of a couple men who've washed a red t-shirt with their SO's whites. It worked, they were forbidden to ever do laundry again.
Title: Re: When you are cooking for only yourself...
Post by: zxcvbob on February 22, 2013, 09:23:45 PM
All my red T-shirts are colorfast :(

Title: Re: When you are cooking for only yourself...
Post by: Boomhauer on February 22, 2013, 09:28:23 PM
All my red T-shirts are colorfast :(



The cheap red shop rags sold at Harbor Freight in the big bundles will do the trick for you. I still have some lightly pink undershirts thanks  to one that SOMEBODY left in their back pocket

Title: Re: When you are cooking for only yourself...
Post by: charby on February 22, 2013, 10:12:13 PM
I used to cook a lot of food that made great leftovers: meatloaf, Chili, Ziti, Chicken Catatori, Red Beans and Rice, Cornbeef and Cabbage, etc. I'd cook usually twice a week and eat leftovers for the other nights. Breakfast was cereal, waffles or eggs. Work lunches were TV dinners or lunchmeat sandwiches. I also ate a lot more fruit and veggies when I was single because i would eat those with my leftover meals, it was easy to toss a frozen bag of veggies in the microwave or eat oranges or apples with the meal. Once a week I'd grill a steak or chop, of course this back when whole ribeyes could be bought for $2.99 a pound on sale.

I actaully ate better when I was single because my wife is a real picky eater.
Title: Re: When you are cooking for only yourself...
Post by: BlueStarLizzard on February 22, 2013, 10:18:11 PM
The cheap red shop rags sold at Harbor Freight in the big bundles will do the trick for you. I still have some lightly pink undershirts thanks  to one that SOMEBODY left in their back pocket



It was me. I admit it.

(luckly there wasn't much in the load I did that could end up unintentionally pink)
Title: Re: When you are cooking for only yourself...
Post by: geronimotwo on February 22, 2013, 10:54:12 PM
^^^^that leaves you wide open to litigation.

i'm a one pot kinda cook.  chili, pot roast, stew.  funny, i was just commenting on my mom's cooking, and mentioning how awesome her stews/soups are.  must've worn off on me.
Title: Re: When you are cooking for only yourself...
Post by: Bigjake on February 22, 2013, 11:30:32 PM
Best thing about one pot cooking, is that it has several options as to what it can become.  What starts out as stew can just as easily be soup,  or instead of thickening with starch or a roux,  add rice.  No idea what that concoction is called but it IS tasty.  Adding Szechuan stir fry hot sauce just makes it that much better.
Title: Re: When you are cooking for only yourself...
Post by: 280plus on February 23, 2013, 08:50:57 AM
I'm a one potter myself. Start out with meat and onions and no telling where it will go from there. We each do our own laundry. In other words, the honeymoon is over.  :'(

 :laugh: