The accident sucks, but I'm glad your wife is okay.
FL drivers sound like CA drivers. Since I've been taking all these trips to Idaho, I've been seeing a huge difference between driving styles. Outside of Boise, driving in ID is a low blood pressure experience. People all seem to give plenty of space, no one seems to get angry, people generally drive around the speed limit and are courteous.
Every time I head back to CA, I can feel my blood pressure go up with tailgaters at 70mph, no one wanting to give an inch for lane changes, and something I just started noticing in the last couple of years: semi drivers that can't stay in their lanes. I used to be very impressed with semi drivers who could handle narrow, crowded, CA highway lanes. They must be desperate for drivers these days, because I see a lot more crappy semi drivers. Makes me look forward to autonomous semis.