My old pal Jim used to remind me at least a couple times a week: "You don't always get what you ask for, but you never get what you don't ask for."
His main variant upon that theme was: "You don't always get what you pay for, but you never get what you don't pay for."
He used to tell me to make lists: what I wanted, what I hoped for, what I feared, what I was and wasn't willing to do to achieve what I wanted, et cetera, et cetera, et cetera. To the extent that I stopped drawing up mental lists and actually exercised pen and paper, then took action, lists worked for me with truly amazing effectiveness.
Oleg, I've no doubt the sort of woman you're interested in not only exists, but could be found if you were to adopt an orderly, logical, efficient process: an "engineering process," as it were. Being a marketing and advertising guy, I tend to see it as a marketing and advertising challenge, though I'm sure my view's not congruent with yours to one degree or another.
Seems to me if you have a popular web site or two, you might start advertising on them.
All that said", I feel honor-bound to mention one more thing Jim used to tell me: "Be careful what you pray for, because you just might get it."
One of the great joys of getting old, I've found, is that I don't still want much very earnestly. I managed to get a lot of what I want, and some of it's worth having; the intensity with which I wanted it, however, led me this way, that way, and every other whichway except where I've actually been going all this time.
I'll wish you the best of success, and hope you succeed reasonably well, but not too well.
