Assuming we stay in our house at least another 5 years (which is a fairly safe assumption, barring major life upheavals) would points/buydown be a decent option?
To get a quarter point off your interest rate will probably cost you about 1.5-2% on a buydown plus administrative fees which, depending on your lender, can be as little as $1000 or as high as $2500. As of today that quarter point buydown will get you 3.625 fixed on a 30 yr note.
Using today's rate, a $100k balance, an average of somewhere around $1500 in fees, a 2% buydown, and roughly $500 in title work and closing costs, you'll have right at four grand in the refi. Amortized over five years that's $66.67 a month you'd need to save to cover the expense.
Using the same $100k balance and going from 5% fixed to 3.625% fixed will save you $79.97 a month (principal and interest payment of $456.05 vs $536.82) over your current payment. Given the 5-year amortized expense of the refi, your net savings is a whopping $13.30 a month.
Keep in mind that's a five year figure. If you stay in the house longer the savings begins to add up, making for significant savings over the total 30 year life of the mortgage. The real issue here is how long do you intend to stay in the home. If it's a
minimum of five years with the possibility of many more after that, a refi could be a real boost for you down the road. If you plan on staying a
maximum of five years, stick with what you have.
If you want to go forward with the refi, give me a call or a PM. I have some local lenders that are rock solid, rate competitive, old-school straightforward, and their total fees are the lowest I've found (less than $1k on average). Not only do they beat the pants off of Big Bank and the internet lenders in terms of rates and fees, they process everything in-house, including underwriting, so none of this "oh, for that question you need to call our processing center in Florida" crap. An added bonus is that a human answers the phone when you call. Plus, the loan officer who helps you get your application ready is same person who processes the loan, not a flunky who gets all the paperwork done then ships your account of to some out-of-state processing center where you have to wade through autoattendant hell to reach someone who
might be able to answer your question.
Brad