I talked to my Aunt (Actually, she's in Memphis, so she would be my Ant), and she was VERY skeptical at first, then I told her about the fact that they told us to submit a claim to the ins, and if they didn't cover, then they would just apply some funding.
My Ant pointed out that if this was the State investigating abuse, etc, this discussion would have never taken place.
She told me to relax, and take their advice (if I want to).
I'm ok now. I will update on Monday after the meeting.
M