HUHHHH! Ooooh baby I got the fever baby, ooooooh yeah, I got the sickness yeah, ooooh momma I got societal sickness, I wanna be sick with you!!!! (sound of electric guitar being smashed into concrete wall).
It's "Clockwork Orange". People are sick and violent because society is sick and violent-and vice versa. And about the only effective (albeit temporary) solution is for the violence-hating people to reach a breaking point, eliminate the sick and twisted, and then go back to their lives believing the whole situation was an abberation, and setting the groundwork for Next Time.
The problem with deviancy is, once it is acceptable, it is no longer deviant. And some people will always revel in being reviled.
We haven't found the balance point yet.
The gun-owning (ideal) society (I'll call it Heinleinian) is a culture that metes out swift, effective, and often fatal justice when someone innocent is hurt or society is threatened, but is otherwise completely indifferent to eccentricities, kinks and desires that don't harm anyone but the willing participants. The difficult line for many of us is agreeing on the line between self-imposed potential harm and societal sickness that infects everyone, and in this respect, the Right is as guilty as the Left. As a whole, we here (THR-types) seem to understand the "Armed Polite Society" part. A lot can't handle the "Live and Let Live" part. You know what? If it weren't the theme of so many political campaigns and evangelical sweeps, eventually "Gay Culture" in America would be as undistinctive (and as controversial) as "Serbo-Latvian* Culture"-some strange practices, true, but unless you are Serbo-Latvian, barely noticeable. Gay theatres and bookshops would close as the once-ostracized members simply go to Borders and Loews. Two men kissing simply does not affect me, even as a man who likes to kiss women. Who does it hurt?
But as someone who needs to impose your own values on others (CHRISTIAN!!! There! I said it, even if you aren't the only ones), you cannot let it go, and you must try to eliminate all other options as unnatural or against G-d (as if lifelong monagamy, for instance, were somehow natural). You create the conflict, because you create an imbalance between societal harm and personal behavior by trying to deny and eliminate the difference.
Frank Zappa said, "Freedom means putting up with stuff that pisses you off". Frank is right.
*No offense was intended to Serbo-Latvians; it was a random choice. Please return to whatever twisted unnatural Godhating rituals you may have been conducting.