Well done, both of you!
They believe that Yeshua came to fulfill the law, not abolish it. I know how heretical that must sound to Judaic orthodoxy, and I don't say it for any reason except to extend a hand of agreement to focus on what we share in common-- the "Old Testament" part of the book.
Fig, I just got off the phone with my daughter. It's evening, Shabbos is over and she called me from her Yeshiva in New Haven.
I was telling her about my experiences posting on the gun forums and about the friends I've made, especially those among believing Christians. And I told her about my last post to Stand_watie and about your post here.
What I told her was how ticklish it can be to get the idea across without mis-communicating.
Jews like myself (a small minority so far, I'm afraid) have come to understand the nature of believing Christians in the States at this time in history. And we welcome an alliance of the two groups whose basic values are very close. I believe we need each other.
The ticklish part comes in conveying, WITHOUT GIVING OFFENSE, that we seek an ALLIANCE of equals, NOT a merging.
Ecumenism and finding points of agreement may be important. But only tactically. NOT theologically. And that's where one must continually strive to communicate as clearly as one can, to avoid giving the wrong impression.
I feel affection and respect for believing Christians. In fact, although liberal Jews are certainly my fellow Jews, I get exasperated at the way they have drifted from and have twisted Jewish teachings. And politically we are very far apart, indeed. (If one examined my voting pattern he would probably guess me to be an Evangelical.)
And one way they drift is to seek the friendship of Christians (so long as these Christians are not too religious -- that would point up their own lack of belief) --and to look for points of convergence in the two religions. They think that blurring the differences will promote friendship.
I don't think that, at all.
I believe that, miraculous as Jewish survival is, we are constantly threatened with assimilation into the majority. Here in the States, there were approximately 5.6 million Jews in the 1990 census. In the latest count, we have shrunk to 5.1 million. We have lost 10% in half a decade! And there are only about 13 million Jews in the entire world. Blurring the theological differences leads to inter-marriage and even conversion. And it leads to drifting even further from observance, which alone keeps the Jews Jewish.
The way to reverse that is to return to Orthodox Jewish belief and practice. Although most assimilated Jews won't do that, my daughter has. That is why my daughter is in Yeshiva. And, thank G-d, she is there because she chooses to be. She is a Hassidic Jew (as is her mother). At least I've accomplished that much.
So although I reach out to believing Christians because of our shared values, I DO NOT, in any way, reach out to them theologically.
As I found it necessary to say in a post on THR (or TFL), there is NO WAY to accommodate Jewish theology to Christian.
No Jew who knows who he is would accept the divinity of Jesus. Period.
I wish I didn't feel the need to be so blunt. I DO NOT want to offend or push away my believing Christian friends. Quite the contrary.
But Christian theology teaches that EVERONE needs to accept Christ. And believing Christians usually do communicate this openly or covertly to Jews. That is a main reason why believing Jews do not seek the friendship of Christians. They're not going to compromise their beliefs in any way -- a grave sin. So here and now they don't want to offend. At other times and places giving offense could have cost them their lives.
So it's easier to just avoid the situation.
I understand their reaction.
But given the crises facing us, I believe we must co-operate in fighting them.
On the other hand you mentioned Messianic Jews. They aren't.
This is simply a covert way to convert confused or ignorant Jews. I am as hostile to this movement as I am to any other attempt to convert Jews. I fully support, from my heart, Christian conversion of gentiles. Without great success in that, our civilization is lost. But keep hands off Jews. We have our own religion we desperately need to return to.
In the middle 80's I attended Messianic meetings (in a Ramada Inn, no less) so as to disrupt the proceedings. This was before I began my return to my heritage. I was completely secular then, but nevertheless very Jewish in my gut.
I would tell the Jews there that what they were seeking was theirs already, but that they wouldn't find it in the "plastic American synagogues" (Reform/Conservative).
And I challenged the "Rabbi" Levy to tell us his real name. Turned out I was correct. He was a Rabbi like I am a kangaroo. And I don't remember his real name but it wasn't Levy.
These were Christians who didn't think that lying and misrepresenting themselves was wrong, so long as they could convert Jews. They prey upon Jews who are ignorant, confused or struck by some tragedy in their lives. If I sound bitter, it's because I am.
I gave them hell. But I didn't get very far with them. Probably because I was myself atheist at the time and had no way to really make contact with these Jews religiously.
Writing this makes me wonder if I shouldn't begin visiting the local Messianic "shul" again.
Naw, there are better ways to use my energy.
So as you can see, I have no difficulty understanding Jewish bitterness and suspicion of Christians, based on our 2000 year long experience. I just think that succumbing to that at this time, in the States and taking it out on American Evangelicals is unfair and counterproductive.
So if you can understand and accept Jewish refusal to entertian any notion that Yehoshua came to fulfill the law, then perhaps we can be friends and allies. We must not foist our theology off on each other.
Christian belief in this time and place instills good morals into people and makes them understand what is important in life and what isn't. What more could one ask of anybody? And Christianity derives from Judasim. We share reverence for the Old Testament (Torah). That's enough for me.
I apologize if I've ruffled feathers. It is nevertheless my sincere hope that you can hear and understand what I'm trying to get across.
And that I truly do feel affection and respect for believing Christians.
Be well,
matis