I don't get punished with recoil from my M14NM, truthfully.
I can, however, feel a goodly amount of recoil when shooting an HK-91.
I tried the FAL, and worked hard at warming up to it. It was neat, fit the EBR description, and went "Bang" every time I pulled the trigger. I didn't like it, and eventually sold it, but that doesn't mean it doesn't work for somebody else. Heck, I love AKs, and they're not even MOA rifles. So folks will understand when asking for a .308 Win/7.62mm NATO semiauto rifle recommendation, I might suggest something other than an FN-FAL variant.
I do believe, however, that Uncle Sam chose the M14 (T-44) vs. the FN-FAL (T-47) during the military evaluations of the 1950s based on more than just the "Not Made Here" stigma.
And I kept the FN-FAL's daddy, the FN-49. It's a sweet rifle, and I can understand why they took production shortcuts to make the FN-FAL. Those things had to be a machinist's nightmare, on par with the M1 Garand. There were no CNC milling machines back then, either.
Now. with respect to the OP's original request, here's a question I've been wondering about...
We know the ATF banned importation of FN-FAL barrels, along with other designs, a few years ago.
That should've kick-started a domestic capability, but what about the rest of the gun?
IOW, if the new administration starts AWB-II, or does another Executive Order import ban, is there a manufacturer in the states that can supply ALL the parts?
Having said that, perhaps a Springfield M1A/Armscorp M14NM, or any number of American AR-10 variants would be a better long-term proposal?
(I don't know, I'm just asking. There may indeed be a domestic source for all things FN-FAL/AK/HK91 that I haven't seen yet...)