If you have a manual you are driving. If you have an automatic, you are just steering.
That's adorable. Come down and ride right seat the next time I do a track day in my 335 and see if you still think that.
Look, I get it, some folks like manuals. Hell
I like manuals. If I ever talk the budget committee into letting me get the TR-3 or MG I want, it'll have a stick. Were I to get a classic 'Stang, I'd look for a 4-speed, because, like my SMLE or Garand, sometimes the old stuff is fun, and it's part of the experience. It's just that, also like my SMLE and Garand, the modern stuff, with the benefits of design evolution is better in pretty much any quantifiable way.* Honestly, as someone that's rebuilt a bunch of both kinds of transmissions, the manuals may have a lower parts count, but they are more of a pain to rebuild.
Hawk should absolutely buy the transmission he wants. $40k is a lot of money to spend on something you are "meh" on. I just think it's funny that he is looking for the obsolete, worse tech. FWIW he's not alone. I just had to cancel my Dad's Christmas present because I noticed at the last minute what I wanted to get hi has a free app to control it, and he still refuses to get a smart phone. So load your Garand, drive your CJ, and tell the kids to get off your lawn. We'll just post some good natured ribbing from our smartphones as our car shifts itself, has more horsepower, and is smoother and faster.
FWIW, Were I in the market for a new truck (I'm not, my F150 has 10 years left in it) I would go for the Ranger over the Taco or Frontier because I'd rather have the more powerful and efficient engine than the manual. A truck is not likely to Rally or be in a drift competition where locking it into a gear would be handy, but it is likely to pull things or need the extra torque the Eco-Boost provides.
*It should be noted here that there are transmissions and then there are transmissions. In much the way that the manual in an 82 Escort is not the same to drive as an 82 911, the automatic in a Fusion is not the same as the automatic in an M5. One of the reasons I bought a 3 series over it's competitors in the sport sedan market is the engine and the ZF 8-speed are awesomely engineered and pretty perfectly programmed. I could have gotten a car that was cheaper, or one that was more reliable, or even a bit faster, but this very issue (driver engagement with the powertrain) pushed me to the one I got. Don't buy the Escort.