I am a commercial HVAC guy so I don't know particulars about residential equipment. Give me an electrical schematic and I can offer suggestions of what to look at in a systematic way.
when running, a red LED labeled manual slow speed fan is flashing
Is the indoor fan coming on automatically or do you have it set on "fan on"?
it continues running but reverses to heat cycle
yup, when you turn the t'stat off it kills the signal to the reversing valve which goes into heat mode when deenergized so if the compressor runs with the valve denergized the unit produces heat.
Have you figured whether you have a signal to the board across Y to C at the plug?
The best/quickest way to check the pump safety switch is to jump the two control wires to the pump together and see if the contactor pulls in.
its dark out and i really dislike 240 AC in the dark
Where's your sense of adventure? I don't know about Goron's area but around here we call a good shock a "cheap buzz"