How to Think Before Speaking - WikiHow

[S. Williamson]

http://www.wikihow.com/Think-Before-Speaking

There is a lot to be taken from the above.  Moreso, if one were to, say, apply this to a forum.

[LadySmith]

In regards to this forum, I've been working on this a lot:

Gauge the reaction: Is the information youre going to present formulated in a way to make a positive impact. Creating a negative atmosphere will guarantee failure in communications. You want people to understand that you are contributing rather than detracting. It only takes once to ruin your ability to communicate during that time. Identify how the listeners will react.

[Regolith]

In regards to this forum, I've been working on this a lot:

Gauge the reaction: Is the information youre going to present formulated in a way to make a positive impact. Creating a negative atmosphere will guarantee failure in communications. You want people to understand that you are contributing rather than detracting. It only takes once to ruin your ability to communicate during that time. Identify how the listeners will react.

I tend to have a bit of trouble with that part, myself.  I also sometimes have a tendency to throw in little tidbits that are somewhat related to the subject but don't really add much to the conversation.  I've definitely caught myself doing that a few times before I stopped and decided either to change my approach or simply not post.

[Tallpine]

I also sometimes have a tendency to throw in little tidbits that are somewhat related to the subject but don't really add much to the conversation.

That reminds me of the time I was out walking the dog, which I do everyday except when it's too cold or too hot or too windy or I just don't feel like or my leg is hurting from the time I injured it when I was working for a guy who had a sister that used to live on the same street as my cousin, who I haven't seen in 40 years because ....