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Lost a Mentor Today...
« on: December 29, 2008, 09:18:43 PM »
http://crm.cr.nps.gov/archive/19-10/19-10-5.pdf

Just one of many many investigations done by my good friend Dave Cooke over his lifetime. I just heard that he passed away today. Very hard to believe right now. Saddest part is last time I worked with him I had to leave the site abruptly and didn't have a chance to say goodbye to him before I left. He was the top archaeologist in the State of CT and even Nick, the other author of the article and the state's only professionally paid archaeologist and the guy with the PhD defered to his knowledge. He will be sorely missed by the many people he touched over the years. He was the best of the best. I expect the 2009 digging season will be a somber one.  =(

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Re: Lost a Mentor Today...
« Reply #1 on: December 29, 2008, 09:46:22 PM »
280: sorry for your loss; had to be fascinating work.
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Re: Lost a Mentor Today...
« Reply #2 on: December 30, 2008, 01:20:33 AM »
280,

Really sorry to see that you lost someone like that. It is always a lot tougher when you don't get to say goodbye - not to mention it happening around the holidays. It sounds like you got to spend a lot of quality time with him though. As hard as it is to lose a great person in your life, but it is a blessing to have been able to get to know them as a great person. Thinking of them and all the good times you had makes you sad, but eventually most of the grief will pass and you will be left with the good memories as well as the lessons you were lucky enough to learn. 

The best way I have learned to honor someone's memory is by passing what you learned from them, on to someone else. And maybe doing for others the way they did for you. Paying it forward, if you will.

Once again. I am sorry to hear of your loss. I wish there was something more to say to alleviate some of the pain. I just lost someone close to me too.

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Re: Lost a Mentor Today...
« Reply #3 on: December 30, 2008, 08:26:09 AM »
Thanks for the kind words. There wasn't one time I worked with Dave that I didn't learn something. Here's a good story that made me laugh when I thought of it later last night. We were at a dig and Dave had recently found a one of a kind object walking a cornfield in the area. It was a 16" stone gouge, kind of a scoop, for hollowing out logs for example, it's girth was as such that your hand barely wrapped all the way around it. Now gouges are not all that rare except this one hand an unusual design. The opposite, nonworking end was a very finely crafted, anatomically correct depiction of a circumcised penis. In other words it was a gigantic stone dick! According to Dave stone phallus' are only found in relation to the burial of a chief and this was the only one known with a gouge on the other end. Anyways, we always ate lunch and shot the breeze in a big group and all the boys were sitting around and Dave breaks this thing out and we all pass it around for a looksee and general glee and bawdy comments abounded. Mostly in relation to being glad we never ran into the Indian that this was supposed to represent cause he musta been a big one. So along comes Cynthia, a rather sweet little old thing but not a bad archaeologist in her own right. She says something like, "OK, what are you boys all carrying on about?" So Dave, without missing a beat, hands it to her "head" first. She looks at it and says, "Oh." rather nonchalantly, then a split second later she realizes what she has in her hand and goes "OH!!" with her eyes getting all big. It was all we could do not to bust out laughing and rolling on the ground but we managed to maintain our composure. She handled it rather well herself maintaining a professional attitude about the whole thing, never even cracked a smile but one can only imagine what was going on in her head.  :laugh:
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