Gods, no offense, but 40 years seems like an eternity to a youngin' like me... Back when I was in and even now, I never expected to survive 40 years, total. I'm trying to grasp being able to think back to stuff I did and survived four decades from now... I'm trying not to think of what the US will probably be in 30, 40 years...
If I ever get down to NoVA, I'll buy ya a beer. And spare ya one of my legal, pre-embargo Cuban cigars if I have any left at that point.
If you want to feel better, ask a dude who got deployed recently how many care packages he got in the mail. I have a hard time mailing my buddies stuff they need/want, as they tend to get significantly more than they can handle. I usually end up sending them niche stuff like flashlights, weird MOLLE kit or a Diskie special medic kit (significantly better than the IFAK, and only 3 times as expensive). Remember the French soldier's writeup of his deployment? Even he noticed. While a handful of dim bulbs either dislike the mission or troops, a lot of folks spend their own money to send stuff to grunts. That says folks still do care and ain't just giving lip service.