does the card support mirroring?
sometimes you have to tell it what you do not want
reboot
tell it what you want
then reboot
sometimes you just buy a mac!
That's a good point. There may be more controls under the "Advanced Options" or a stand-alone video-driver utility than just the Windows display settings. Most Intel and ATI video drivers have them.
Also, the system can't maintain two different aspect ratios or resolutions on two different sized monitors if it's Mirroring. Is there a secondary regular computer monitor also hooked up to the (Optiplex desktop?) 760? It can only go to the native resolution if it's extended desktop mode, or in only one or the other mode. Or it has to have the large HDTV screen as primary and let it squash the aspect ratio on the actual computer monitor. (again, if there's a second monitor)
Also, Xp can be "sticky" to multi-monitor modes if there EVER was a second or different monitor installed at any point and won't give up on it.
Also, the multi-monitor support can also be controled with the actual driver control panel from the MFG. and it will often override whatever windows has set.