My wife is very small and skinny. A youth-model 870 is still just too heavy, and especially too long, for her to heft upward comfortably, and pump properly. What she needs is an H&R/NEF youth model. However, I know for a fact that they are going to kick too hard for her due to their lightness. So I'm thinking of buying her a NEF youth model, and adding some lead to the stock, or, finding reduced-recoil loads. I would consider a .410 but they are so hard to hit with, I don't want to. The gun will be used mostly for clays.
Any other suggestions? I have heard that the NEF shotguns' buttstocks have a hole in them that can be filled with shot, but I'm not sure if that's the wood stocks, the plastic stocks, or both.
I wish they made one with a pink stock. She would like that.