Hmmm, not so sure about that myself. Isn't current, current, regardless which leg is being used in the panel? If the neutral is 14 gauge and you have two circuits using it pulling at their max of 15 amps how can the #14 wire be acceptable?
Because, as you stated, current is current.
15 amps goes out leg A, 15 comes back on leg B.
In other words, when opposite-legged circuits share a neutral, the neutral only needs to carry the difference between the two loads.
If someone didn't know what they were doing, and tried to share neutral with two circuits that had their hots on the same leg, then you would be in trouble. The neutral would try to carry 30 amps, or, the summation of the two loads.
Post number five:
Hmmm.