There were women I'd pursued for years without luck who, once I was married, came on to me in a pretty aggressive way.
Yea, what's up with that? I was seeing this one girl for a long time but she only ever acted mildly interested and dated other guys, usually losers. No biggie. So I meet my present wife and we get married. NOW all of a sudden this other girl gets all aggressive and here it's 2 1/2 years since I got married and she STILL calls me and wants to take me to lunch etc.
Don't worry ML, they're still looking. Your just getting too old and slow to catch them.
So am I. But I WILL note that all I have to do is climb in my pretty red 4x4 Pick-um-up and I suddenly see girls looking my way constantly. "There's something women like about a pick up truck." Then they see there's an old fart driving it and look away in a big hurry. LOL...