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BozemanMT

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Really really really bizzare day
« on: August 25, 2006, 04:49:59 PM »
My father died when i was very young (4/5years old) and for whatever reason that side of the family had nothing to do with us and my mother raised us and I never really met any of that side of the family.
Last year I got married and my wife is big into geneology, she starts researching and finds out that my dad's only sister and mother are alive and living in Pueblo (150 miles away).  She writes letters and makes contact, etc and my aunt (dad's sister) is very excited to hear from us, so my wife sends pictures etc.

Fast forward one month and we get a call yesterday that my grandmother (who if I ever met I was like 3 or 4 years old) has died at 95 years old and my aunt would like us to come down for the funeral.

WTH, why not, break the ice, etc.

Drive down, go into the mortuary for the service and about 3 people come up and say (and mind you I have not seen any of these people in over 30 years) you must be Joe Jr's son (my father)
Apprantly I look exactly like him.

So, then this lady walks up and says "i hear you are Joe Jr's son"
yep
"I'm his first wife"
What?Huh?Huh?Huh?Huh?Huh?Huh?Huh?Huh?Huh?Huh?///
What first wife
Where did this come from, excuse me?  you could have knocked me over with a feather.
Then, it gets better

you ready for this?


She says "my daughter will be here soon, that would be your sister!"

Thump
me hitting the floor
I have a sister?Huh?Huh?Huh?
apparantly so
It was a very strange day.
Brian
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« Reply #1 on: August 25, 2006, 05:29:39 PM »
Hey, that's better than what happened to my aunt's ex-husband (while they were still married).  He got a call one day from an ex-girlfriend asking if he'd like to speak with his 19 year old daughter.
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« Reply #2 on: August 25, 2006, 05:34:51 PM »
Hmmm  I think there is something odd about Longmont.  Last week a buddy who lives in Longmont received similar news about unknow extended family suddenly becoming known.  He has a some new siblings and cousins to learn about, as well as some potential "interesting" questions about biological parentage.

Congrats on the newly found family.
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« Reply #3 on: August 25, 2006, 06:00:48 PM »
Well, it gives you a whole new family history to catch up on. Could be interesting. Enjoy it!

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« Reply #4 on: August 26, 2006, 06:35:44 AM »
well, I didn't meet my dad until I was in my forties...

I have some half-brothers and sisters, too - not yet met them  face to face but have talked on the phone with some of them

what was really weird is that my older half-sister and I would have grown up together if my mom and dad had not gotten divorced  Sad

last year I was able to trace my dad's family all the way back to South Carolina in the late 1700s but still can't find the direct connection to Scotland.  the family were all southern farmers up until my dad's generation in the 20th century
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