I know this might sound like a snarky, rhetorical question, but I'm totally cereal. I seem to remember that we were told back about 10 or 20 years ago, perhaps not in so many words, that if we were offended by seeing two homosexuals hold hands, etc, that it was our problem. It seems like it was something they (the news/opinion/entertainment media) actually came right out and said, but the memory is a little fuzzy. Does that ring a bell with anyone else?