good work ethic
punishment for bad behavior
instruction in manners
There are a range of government regulations designed to hit these points squarely. For one, education standards-already existing to some degree, and proposed ones like in the OP. Punishment for bad behavior and poor manners is effected through laws that impose responsibility on parents for misdeeds of children, and criminal neglect laws-if your kid is acting out all the time, you can bet someone will take a hard look at your parenting and possibly invoke any of the laundry list of child protection options (that was the genesis of the current home school case, it seems.)Not even close.
You're talking about repercussions from actual, past crimes. If anything, education requirements work in the opposite fashion. Schools; public, private, or home; must be approved prior to and during the process. The process itself is inspected and controlled by the state. The authorities do not wait until Johnny tries to apply at Wal-Mart and can't fill out his application. Nor do they respond at that juncture. Instead, they get all up in the process. And that is statism, rather than justice.
Now, you may ask, do I want education laws to work that way? Of course not. Johnny's inability to read doesn't infringe anyone's rights.
Divorce-not favored. There is no reason why it has to be as costly and difficult to go through a divorce as it is; divorce is disfavored in almost every jurisdiction by law, and in divorce, guess what happens to parental authority? It comes squarely within judicial oversight. So yeah, I'd say that barriers to divorce and the conduct of divorce proceedings are a very good example of the kind of regulation mentioned in the OP.
I don't know where you live, but I was talking about the U.S. In my country, kids are born and raised with no marriage at all. And you know what? There's no law against that. In my country, I have no problem finding kids who's parents are divorced. The courts themselves set it up. Do they have a say in who has custody? Of course. But where is this magical part of the U.S. where judges say, "No, sorry, you have to stay married; you've got kids"? Even if you could come up with some cases, you can't deny that divorce among parents is extremely common. More on divorce to follow.
I think the fact that you are reduced here to one line declarations in place of reasoned argument has something to do with it.
The burden of proof is on the one making outlandish comparisons between being locked in a dungeon, and not being learned how to read good and stuff. Not to mention your goofy claims I just dealt with. So, you go ahead and come up with some reasoned arguments, and I'll respond with the same.
I notice that you don't explain how laws discouraging divorce are somehow not "bankrupt and authoritarian."
Well, I was coming down with a fever, so forgive me if I didn't finish responding to your whole post. I spent all of Sunday just sleeping and watching a movie, and if I hadn't stayed home from work today, I wouldn't be responding at all right now.
I've actually grown ambivalent with regards to whether govt. should recognize marriage at all, which you could easily see by looking up some of my comments about homosexual marriage. So, maybe divorce laws are statist and fit in the same category as these other issues; I haven't made up my mind.
In any case, even if the divorce laws do not belong in the same category, even if divorce laws are the proper purview of the state, that would not rescue your view from being dominant, yet ludicrous.