Gah! Why, oh, why, do people think it is ok to withhold payment for days because they are "waiting for other auctions to end"? Yeah, if you want me to combine items to ship, I will, but you still need to pay me for them.
And then there's the "sick kid" card.
This woman has owed me money since July 31. She refused to pay until Aug. 3 because she was bidding on another of my auctions. Fine. Well, not really, but not much I can do about it.
So, August 3 she now owes me three payments, totaling $170. Nothing. Not a word. No messages for days. Filed a non-paying buyer notice.
Finally I get a message. Her kid is sick and in the hospital and so she can't get to a computer and so she can't pay me until net week. Wtf?
How is it that someone can get to a computer long enough to explain why she can't pay for a week, but she can't get to a computer long enough to actually pay? This does not make sense to me. And no, it's not that she's just doing some quick emailing. This is on the eBay messaging system, so she's logging in to ebay. If she can log into ebay, she can log into paypal. I wonder if she expects the other people she buys things from to just manage without getting paid because she'll get around to it next week. Is she just grabbing her milk and eggs from the grocery store, because she'll send a check next week, maybe, if she feels like it?
I can be as sympathetic as the next person to a disaster that prevents one from functioning, but I have very little sympathy for disasters that don't prevent one from entering new agreements, receiving the benefit of those agreements, and not actually fulfilling their obligations under the agreements. An having the time to make excuses, but not to fulfill the obligation. Even when the obligation and the excuse-making take roughly the same amount of time and effort.
/rant