Anybody care to expound?
Sure. Who cares that a social secretary is gay? Maybe it's being stereotypical and/or racist, but some occupations, plenty of other folks have a positive stereotype. Japanese gardeners, gay interior designers, German engineers, Swedish models, etc.
It's BS, but people are often inherently illogical and not always in a negative fashion. Buddy of mine is gay. Dude couldn't design you a coordinated living room if you threatened him with torture. Landing gear for an aircraft, no problem. Color matching? Yea, not so much.