to some limited degree due to our insufficient care
I agree. Several good men were killed. Our employees. KILLED SIMPLY BECAUSE THEY WORK FOR US. And their supervisors' cavalier, indifferent attitude was likely a major factor.
I'm angry, and I contend I am entitled to that anger and frustration. I will offer that I do appreciate the sympathy from a segment of the Libyan population, and I do not advocate their wholesale extermination, despite any previously suggestive statements made in anger. But it's also too little too late. if this outrage had been expressed a month ago, perhaps Ambassador Stevens might be alive.
I don't see a solution, except to say that apology and appeasement ain't it with people who only respect and respond to strength.