This is the inescapable conclusion I keep coming to. I can't see how the math works out any differently, and I'm done deluding myself that the reason I keep losing is because their side has some sort of unfair advantage in terms of money or media or insiders or whatever.
Their advantage runs much deeper than those things. Their advantage is in our culture, as shaped by left-leaning news and entertainment media, education, corporations, bureaucracy, and so on. As an example, we keep referring to left-wing, anti-Constitutionalist Republicans as "moderates." Right in our own minds, they've already won.