We should have compassion for the broken.
I had a coworker who transitioned over a period of a couple years. He was the only person who consistently wore dresses and skirts to work. He had the work done on his face and vocal cords and started hormone treatments. I never asked if he still had the factory plumbing or not. Hadn’t got his boobs yet either. He left us to go be a flight attendant.
He has law enforcement and emergency services background, lifetime NRA. We got along great. He might have even voted for Trump for all I know.
Even though we got along well, I still tread lightly and followed company policy on gender pronouns and the name change. I didnt ask a lot of questions.
We live in clown world and are surrounded by folks who are delusional.